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All this and no dedication???
OK, you've read all the 'l'm in love with my best friend' threads, and l suppose I've been feeling the same way to, last week i told her i really like her n things got kinda awkward, my feelings weren reciprocated....... blah blah
ANYWAY, friday night we both meet up at a party, and she got rather trashed - but as shes drunk enough to let stuff out easier, but sober enough to be in control of her thoughts we have a talk... And, she just made it clear that as a friend i just mean the world to her n shes never felt as close to anyone before etc etc... At first i just thought how nice it would be if she was telling the truth and not drunkenly mumbling... But as she went on i could clearly see she was too drunk to be capable of making this stuff up. Then we started hugging and telling each other 'ur the ****in' best friend in my life'...
Sure enough, I woke up on sat afternoon thinking 'was this just her drunken behavior?', but it clearly wasnt as i logged on msn n there was her telling me again what an awesome friend i was, and then we met up to get some food and watched a film, and vrything felt amazing, we'd just keep saying stuff to each other like 'i cant remember the last time i felt this good around you'... and sure enough we concluded with another hug and just felt so happy!
So question, can I have all this and still be 'young, free and single'??, can a friendship really be this amazing, or best i wait arround for things to develop?? tbh, i dnt care tht much coz i now just know what an amazing mate i have
ANYWAY, friday night we both meet up at a party, and she got rather trashed - but as shes drunk enough to let stuff out easier, but sober enough to be in control of her thoughts we have a talk... And, she just made it clear that as a friend i just mean the world to her n shes never felt as close to anyone before etc etc... At first i just thought how nice it would be if she was telling the truth and not drunkenly mumbling... But as she went on i could clearly see she was too drunk to be capable of making this stuff up. Then we started hugging and telling each other 'ur the ****in' best friend in my life'...
Sure enough, I woke up on sat afternoon thinking 'was this just her drunken behavior?', but it clearly wasnt as i logged on msn n there was her telling me again what an awesome friend i was, and then we met up to get some food and watched a film, and vrything felt amazing, we'd just keep saying stuff to each other like 'i cant remember the last time i felt this good around you'... and sure enough we concluded with another hug and just felt so happy!
So question, can I have all this and still be 'young, free and single'??, can a friendship really be this amazing, or best i wait arround for things to develop?? tbh, i dnt care tht much coz i now just know what an amazing mate i have
fathermaxi20
jesus christ, i've just read all your countless threads down below, your so confusing, first you say you have no friends blah blah blah. your a schizo!
I'm anonymous
Talya
Don't treat her as potential gf or you will scare her off (standard advice I give to every thread like this), let her indicate if she wants the relationship to progress, given that she knows how you feel.
Yep. Ball's in her court, so to speak
.Don't go telling her 'I don't feel like that anymore' if it's not true, because obviously if at some point down the line she starts liking you she'll assume she's missed her chance. But at the same time, no need to reiterate it - just focus on having a great friendship right now, because should a relationship possibly come along later on, that's the healthiest thing you can do for it right now.
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It doesn't sound like it's breaching the boundaries of good friends. Of course you can be free and single!
It's odd, I bumped into her walking back from lectures and I can't remember the last time I generally felt that happy just talking to her, i always used to tell myself stuff like 'ooh shes so beautiful, must spend time with her' that until friday i just forgot how powerful our friendship was. Is that stupid, or normal??
scribble_girl
Yep. Ball's in her court, so to speak .
Don't go telling her 'I don't feel like that anymore' if it's not true, because obviously if at some point down the line she starts liking you she'll assume she's missed her chance. But at the same time, no need to reiterate it - just focus on having a great friendship right now, because should a relationship possibly come along later on, that's the healthiest thing you can do for it right now..
.Don't go telling her 'I don't feel like that anymore' if it's not true, because obviously if at some point down the line she starts liking you she'll assume she's missed her chance. But at the same time, no need to reiterate it - just focus on having a great friendship right now, because should a relationship possibly come along later on, that's the healthiest thing you can do for it right now.
.play it cool and see what happens from there is my advice for you..
its good youve got such a good friend, keep it that way, if she eventually develops feelings and you still like her then, bonus, but until then be content with such an 'amazing' friend
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