GF doesnt look at me anymore

Just wanted advice on this ill keep it short.
Been going out with my gf for over 9 months known each other for ages before but all of sudden recently we have been arguing alot and ive noticed that when we kiss n things she looks over my shoulder.
Not sure if i shud mention this or not?

Many thanks

Reply 1

Meep!

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It's always a good idea to talk things over, especially if you feel things might not be going so well.

Reply 2

username47781

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damnthelackofnames

It's always a good idea to talk things over, especially if you feel things might not be going so well.

Agree with this communication is a big key to a good relationship.

Reply 3

IndianDiva

:dito:

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Has anything changed in ur relationship? maybe uv done something to make her feel this way? Do u still try to show her a lot of affection? u say u'v been together 9 months and sometimes as a relationship progresses we forget these things that we tried so hard to do at the beginning. Talk to her and see if u can work it out

Reply 5

tetrahydrocannabinol.

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She could just be stressed about a family/uni/school/friendship situation, which may be causing her to act differently in the relationship. But yeah like the other guys said, just try andtalk about it. Good luck :smile:

Reply 6

hippieglitter

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Why is she looking anywhere while kissing, don't most people close their eyes? But try talking to her about it and keep an eye on where she is putting her eyes, not looking at you while you are talking to her is just plain rude.

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

hippieglitter

not looking at you while you are talking to her is just plain rude.

Not always, my boyfriend and I dont sit there constantly gazing into each others eyes when we are having a chat. Obviously if ur having a serious conversation then its preferred.

To the OP, how do u feel about ur GF? do u still think of her in the same way? maybe if ur having doubts thats showing through to her

Reply 8

shinytoy

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i dont get it either - why are her eyes open when kissing? and hugging, well you cant exactly look into each othere s eyes, you look over each otehrs shoulders because of the torso positions. in this case it is normal and difficult to imagine any other way

Reply 9

Anthonyjm71

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hippieglitter

Why is she looking anywhere while kissing, don't most people close their eyes? But try talking to her about it and keep an eye on where she is putting her eyes, not looking at you while you are talking to her is just plain rude.

have you had a go finding the reason as to why!..

Reply 10

hippieglitter

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Anonymous

Not always, my boyfriend and I dont sit there constantly gazing into each others eyes when we are having a chat. Obviously if ur having a serious conversation then its preferred.

To the OP, how do u feel about ur GF? do u still think of her in the same way? maybe if ur having doubts thats showing through to her

I didn't say 'gazing into each others eyes' but it is customary and just common courtesy to look at someone when they're talking to you.

GF doesnt look at me anymore

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