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    Hello people,

    I was just curious if a couple are in a relationship and the girl is not keen to have sex and shes a virgin, what are the chances of losing control when having oral sex and getting tempted to make love without wanting to.

    On a side note the couple will be living and staying in the same room for 3 weeks.
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    It depends why she is a virgin? If its just because shes never got round to having sex then im sure she will be tempted.
    If its because of religious reasons then no matter the temptation she'll do her best not to so it'd be cruel to tempt her XD
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    What the actual f**k
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    65.89% chances.
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    Some are and some aren't. Women are human too
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    (Original post by Josb)
    65.89% chances.
    Very specific!
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    (Original post by Hevachan)
    It depends why she is a virgin? If its just because shes never got round to having sex then im sure she will be tempted.
    If its because of religious reasons then no matter the temptation she'll do her best not to so it'd be cruel to tempt her XD
    The reason why she doesn't want to lose it is because her aunts and external family are very judgmental and she wants to prove them wrong by not doing it as she believes she can't pretend like she didn't do it when she did. At first she was okay with it until her family god involved her mum and dad are okay with us staying together but all of a sudden everybody is acting nice to her inviting her to her house just to talk to her about it, kind of playing with her mind in a way.

    Another side note: It is a distance relationship
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    I don't see how you can be tempted to make love without wanting to. Surely that's like saying, how can I stop myself wanting to have sex, because I actually don't want sex.

    Now, if you're religious and you really mean that you want to stop lust taking over as you want to wait till marriage to have sex, then I'd say yes you'll be tempted. If it gets too heated just stop and tell your partner you're not ready.
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    The reason why she doesn't want to lose it is because her aunts and external family are very judgmental and she wants to prove them wrong by not doing it as she believes she can't pretend like she didn't do it when she did. At first she was okay with it until her family got involved. Her mum and dad are okay with us staying together but all of a sudden everybody is acting nice to her inviting her to their house just to talk to her about it, kind of playing with her mind in a way.

    Another side note: It is a distance relationship

    (had some errors in my last post)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The reason why she doesn't want to lose it is because her aunts and external family are very judgmental and she wants to prove them wrong by not doing it as she believes she can't pretend like she didn't do it when she did. At first she was okay with it until her family god involved her mum and dad are okay with us staying together but all of a sudden everybody is acting nice to her inviting her to her house just to talk to her about it, kind of playing with her mind in a way.

    Another side note: It is a distance relationship
    Oh thats weird.. well i think you're going to have to talk her over first because if all that is going through her head then she wont feel like sex!
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    (Original post by Plantagenet Crown)
    If her hole gets wet and sticky then she most certainly wants the dicky.
    :lolwut::puke:
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    (Original post by Danz123)
    I don't see how you can be tempted to make love without wanting to. Surely that's like saying, how can I stop myself wanting to have sex, because I actually don't want sex.

    Now, if you're religious and you really mean that you want to stop lust taking over as you want to wait till marriage to have sex, then I'd say yes you'll be tempted. If it gets too heated just stop and tell your partner you're not ready.
    It's perfectly possible to not really be in the mood for sex and then suddenly want to do it after a bit of foreplay has warmed you up.
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    (Original post by Plantagenet Crown)
    It's perfectly possible to not really be in the mood for sex and then suddenly want to do it after a bit of foreplay has warmed you up.
    I get that, but OP's question was more how do I stop that temptation leading me to sex when I don't want to have sex. I was a bit perplexed because surely if the desire's there... it means you want to have sex. The only way this would make sense is if she wants to keep her virginity either for marriage, or she just feels she'd regret having sex after the fact.
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    (Original post by CoolCavy)
    :lolwut::puke:
    It never happens to you?
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    (Original post by Josb)
    It never happens to you?
    no i don't know any boys in real life and i am only 16
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    (Original post by CoolCavy)
    no i don't know any boys in real life and i am only 16
    Umm... how? :indiff:
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    (Original post by Imperion)
    Umm... how? :indiff:
    how what?
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    (Original post by CoolCavy)
    how what?
    How do you not know any guys IRL? All girls VI form?
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    (Original post by CoolCavy)
    how what?
    How do you not know any boys in real life?

    Do you live on a remote island where the inhabitants are only females?
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    (Original post by Imperion)
    How do you not know any guys IRL? All girls VI form?
    i have been going to a single sex grammar for 6 years and bc i don't socialise outside of school i don't know any boys
 
 
 
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