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Guys: should I make a move or move on? watch

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    Been friends with a guy for 6 years. Were very close at the beginning but got pulled apart for about 3 years for external reasons. We started spending more time together about 6 months ago, sometimes alone, but mainly with other people. When it's just the two of us, I feel this magnetic pull. We can talk for hours and there's chemistry there.

    But as soon as we're in a group it's obviously different. A few times, we've been mistaking for being eachothers boyfriend/girlfriend and we had a slow dance at his birthday recently much to the embarrassment of our friend group! He'll always send me a message to say he's had a great time, he checks me out and is very complimentary to me about looks & personality in front of other people.

    But when it comes down to it, he never asks me to hang out alone. He asks me to hang out, frequently, with him and his friends. Basically every weekend. When we do see each other, he's touchy feel and sweet, but I can't figure out his feelings. What do you think?
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    My advice: either make the first move or move on.
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