I have a massive crush on a coworker but they are over a decade older than me.
He is terribly good looking, is my type and seems to have a lot of traits that I look for. I find myself fantasizing about him when I'm at work as well as away from the workplace and quite often end up acting awkwardly around him, appearing a little stand-.offish
I cannot tell if he likes me or not, because he sometimes looks awkward when he's around me but he often looks awkward in general.
How could I go about seeing if he's interested, given that he's so much older and I doubt there is much chance?
What are the downsides?