Because I'm very close with my family and my grandma's not feeling very well lately (she lives with us), I've been visiting home every two weeks. However, none of my flatmates have actually gone home yet (It's been a month) and I feel that my flatmates are judging me in some way. I even overheard one of the girls say I'm 'not independent'. To be fair, I cook and clean after myself at home because my mum is usually busy with work and looking after my grandma so there's really not much difference. It's just making me feel guilty in some way in going home. Also, out of my flatmates, my hometown is the closest to my uni (1hr30) and only costs me £12 return on the train. And my flatmates are party animals and I'm really not so going home is paradise right now.
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- Thread Starter
- 17-10-2015 11:17
- 17-10-2015 11:26
So your grandma being sick is not the actual reason you go home, it's you finding home as a paradise.
Why are you bothered about what they say if you don't wish to interact with them interms of just hanging out with them.
I'm not sure why you feel bad about them saying you're not independent...you said your self 'home is paradise'Last edited by Francis.C; 17-10-2015 at 11:29.
- 17-10-2015 14:18
No, you shouldn't feel guilty. Stop over thinking things you'll drive yourself crazy.