From what I can observe, mixed race people never date each other. Barack Obama has a black wife, a lot of mixed race guys here seem to have white girlfriends, and a lot of mixed race girls seems to go for white guys. I guess there are mixed race women that go for black guys too but it seems rarer. But i've never really seen clearly mixed race people both date each other. It seems, in areas where race is more clear, that mixed race people only date black or white people and usually seem to date white people, especially mixed race women.
I would like to hear from mixed race people and their experiences of who they are attracted to, who their relatives date etc.
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I am attracted to almost exclusively white men tbh, few Asians and mixed but never black
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but if you went to Brazil you would see more mixed race couples
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- 18-10-2015 15:37
Basically anything that looks appetising
I'm never attracted to black girls, though. -
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- 18-10-2015 15:38
Personally, I'm more attracted towards Middle Eastern and South/East Asian and white.
My sister's dating a white guy atm.
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- 18-10-2015 15:38
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Basically anything that looks appetising
I'm never attracted to black girls, though. -
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- 18-10-2015 15:39
I am mixed and I love mixed guys but I rarely meet any. Where did all the mixed guys go? My boyfriend is white though.
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- 18-10-2015 15:40
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You are mixed race guy right? Oh also, I should add, I'd be quite interested if you could add which of your parents is which ethnicity, so I can see if this affects it.
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- 18-10-2015 15:45
i wouldn't say i prefer mixed race girls because there's just so much variety within that group
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Whether or not people would like to admit it, there is a objective hierachy of of attractiveness for races and basically the whiter you are the better.
Most mixed race people end up with white people unless they're raised in a very cultural ethnic community and take on a more ethnic identity.
I don't mean to sound racist and i'm actually ethnic myself but it's all backed up by statistics. -
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- 18-10-2015 15:46
I am interested if mixed black white people are different according to parental order, and if it effects their preferences, but then when I think of mixed women, whether the dad is black or white, they seem to prefer white guys. It seems like the first and most mixed race people, in the case of white/black, were black dads and white mums, personally I think that may have been to do with black mens reputed sexual performance, but now it seems there are more white guy/black woman couples, or white guy/mixed woman couples. It's a lot slower though, I'm pretty sure most of the original cohort of mixed race Britons had a black Dad. -
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- 18-10-2015 15:48
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Whether or not people would like to admit it, there is a objective hierachy of of attractiveness for races and basically the whiter you are the better. -
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- 18-10-2015 15:49
Of course it's rare for mixed race people to date each other, they're a minority in the UK (Northern Ireland in particular). If I narrowed my dating pool to only mixed race gay guys in Northern Ireland the odds of me finding someone I connected to would be quite low indeed.
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- 18-10-2015 15:52
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But you are a UKIP supporter, slightly biased sample, if you don't mind me saying, and slightly atypical for a mixed race person.
Plus there are not many black people i know -
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- 18-10-2015 15:53
I think the opposite of what you say is true. I tend to want females my complexion or darker [Im mixed] - I have gone white but it not a preference. Mixed females as far as I know consider themselves black and only a few cases I know of would date white guy. White men seem to have strong preference for their own kind and see mixed race girls as black and 'out of the question' from my experience.
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- 18-10-2015 15:53
(Original post by Xsk)
Of course it's rare for mixed race people to date each other, they're a minority in the UK (Northern Ireland in particular). If I narrowed my dating pool to only mixed race gay guys in Northern Ireland the odds of me finding someone I connected to would be quite low indeed. -
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- 18-10-2015 15:53
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lol a minority that supports UKIP....good luck with your self-delusion goals of 2015
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