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Where do i start? This is a big one.

I met a girl at my aunties house (their friends), and i REALLY fancied her. Im REALLY shy though and didn't do anything about it. My auntie asked her in front of me if she liked me, and twice she turned away smilling.

I got her number eventually and texted her, asking her out (my first time ever), after my auntie told me she had been dumped by her boyfriend. She texted back saying i was a lovely lad but she wasn't ready for going out or anything. I understand that, but i still dont know whether that was a brush off. I also found out that she got dumped because she wouldnt have sex with her boyfriend, and he called her etc. Shes 18 been hurt by lads 3 times. I'm 21 and never had a girlfriend. Her ex was younger than me, and she might think i want the same, but im not that type of lad. Shes a bit dizzy/naive etc, and the other lads treated her badly.

Also, we had a bbq at our house and i invited her because my auntie was coming too. She came, but i dont know whether it was for me or my auntie. We talked a bit, but its hard in front of my family. i did notice that we kept looking at each other, but looking away as our eyes met.????????????

Theres more problems as well. shes a jehovas witness, and her mum is really strict with her, she doesnt have much freedom.she would get 'MURDURED' if her mum found out what she did, or if she was with a lad.

Another thing is that we are the complete opposites of each other, shes dizzy, wild, outgoing, loud etc, whereas im quite quiet and shy. we are also from different family backgrounds. she also thinks shes thick and is regularly told so, she finished school at 16 whereas i have a degree. She appears really confident, but i dont know whether this is an act, as she appears a little shy around me. but i think we have the same morals, such as trust, only wanting one person etc. what would she see in someone as unconfident as me?

Any comments. PLEEEEEEEEEEEASE!!!!!!!!!!1
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she wants you bad!!!


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Nice one.

But what makes u so sure? Can u explain. I dont know anythin bout girls

Whats the problem then?

Does she really need time alone?
Does she think ill think shes thicDoes she think im only after one thing?
Frightened of being hurt?
Shy?
Scared of her mum?


Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh!!!!!!!!
Im going mad.

I finally meet someone, and all this happens.

wat should i do??????????
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ask her the questions you ust posted!?!?!

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ask her the questions you ust posted!?!?!

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i think u shud try n tlk 2 the girl no matter what ur families do u need 2 know where u stand n quick by the sounds of it cus ur guna go mad this way

total opposites cud become love there's got 2 be sumfin there otherwise this wudn't b happening
hope i've helped
Love Nicola xxx
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(Original post by sparky)
i think u shud try n tlk 2 the girl no matter what ur families do u need 2 know where u stand n quick by the sounds of it cus ur guna go mad this way

total opposites cud become love there's got 2 be sumfin there otherwise this wudn't b happening
hope i've helped
Love Nicola xxx
lol dude, the reply before yours was posted in something like JULY lol
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I don't think she gave you the brush off. I think she got dumped and isn't going to rush into something and end up using you as a "rebound". Give her time to breath between relationships, that's all.

If she is really out-going and you are really shy, that may just be the perfect match. You may balance one another out nicely.

Don't text message her all the time. Try talking to her, even if you feel stupid; she probably is well aware of your shyness so if she's interested, she'll work around it (just throw her something to work with).
And as far as her being naive and such, she can't be all that bad being that she didn't have sex with her ex's just because they wanted her to. There are so many silly girls who will have sex just to keep their b/f's - not realizing that if they were worth their bodies, they would be willing to wait.

Don't worry about the family, she has gone about having relationships with or without them knowing, right? She either knows how to sneak around without them knowing or is honest with them - either way, that's her issue to deal with.
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lol, even though this post is old, i shall reply

the girl would not get murdered! i know a girl who is my age and is a jehova's witness. she is not married and is pregnant

pretty big stuff in her religion, but she ain't getting murdered!!

lol, that's just silly

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