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    So Im a third year student, 20 Years old and one of the youngest in the year. Matched and started speaking to this girl on tinder who is 18 but she's in her last year at sixth form. Now if she was 2 months older she'd be a first year at uni which would mean it'd be absolutely fine to meet up with her etc in my opinion.

    But does the fact that she is still a sixth former make it weird and a bit creepy if I were to meet with her for a date or whatever. I think if I pulled her on a night out it wouldn't be considered that bad but are these circumstances a bit too much?
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    Yep, it's creepy. You must be the same age.

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    Nah I think you're good.
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    It's only 2 years difference and you're both adults. You are fine lmao.
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    She's over 18 and you're 20, I think the fact she's over 18 helps. I was 18 when I went out with my first boyfriend and he was 21. However we were both at uni, so that might make the difference...
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    I don't think it's creepy. I met my boyfriend whilst I was in sixth form and he was in his third year. As long as both parties are over eighteen, go for it
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    It's fine
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    She's over 18 you're good
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    It really isn't an issue...


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    Shes over 16
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    If you like each other and have compatible maturity, then of course it's fine! When I was 17, my boyfriend was 29, so you really have nothing to worry about...
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    No, not really.
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    So Im a third year student, 20 Years old and one of the youngest in the year. Matched and started speaking to this girl on tinder who is 18 but she's in her last year at sixth form. Now if she was 2 months older she'd be a first year at uni which would mean it'd be absolutely fine to meet up with her etc in my opinion.

    But does the fact that she is still a sixth former make it weird and a bit creepy if I were to meet with her for a date or whatever. I think if I pulled her on a night out it wouldn't be considered that bad but are these circumstances a bit too much?
    It's a two year age gap stop being weird it isn't even something to worry about.


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    So Im a third year student, 20 Years old and one of the youngest in the year. Matched and started speaking to this girl on tinder who is 18 but she's in her last year at sixth form. Now if she was 2 months older she'd be a first year at uni which would mean it'd be absolutely fine to meet up with her etc in my opinion.

    But does the fact that she is still a sixth former make it weird and a bit creepy if I were to meet with her for a date or whatever. I think if I pulled her on a night out it wouldn't be considered that bad but are these circumstances a bit too much?
    Perfectly fine. I was 17 dating a 19yr old.
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    My boyfriend at 18 was 24, it was never a problem. 2 years is nothing!
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    I started going out with my husband when I was 18 and still in college (just finishing). He was 20 and was starting third year in uni. No one cared about the age gap. It's perfectly fine

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    The problem is more of both of you having to use tinder to find a date in the first place.
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    I didn't HAVE to use tinder to find a date....just so happens that this particular date is as a result of being on tinder
 
 
 
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