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    Basically I'm 18 and at university in scotland (I'm a virgin) but theres this guy I like and I think he has a thing for me too, we talk on facebook and watsapp and he's in my friendship group at uni also so we see each other all the time but we don't talk a huge amount, mainly because we're both quite shy around each other, but whenever we're at parties we're very flirty and get with each other. Neither of us want a relationship whatsoever, (I'm sure of that), but I quite like just being flirty and having the 'benefits' of a relationship but not actually labelling it, and not acting like we're in one. (I know I wouldn't feel bad about having sex with him as this whole situation has been going on for a while now)
    What are your opinions on this? (brutal honesty is allowed)
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    Been there, done that.

    Obviously I prefer normal relationships but sometimes you just want to take it easy. That's where FWB comes in I guess...
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    Don't do it. Fwb with actual friends can ruin your friendship! Even if you both don't want commitment and just want the fun, feelings will always always get involved.

    Been there, done that, got the tshirt.
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    Might as well just go for it
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    love it
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    do you think you're ready to receive the benefits,
    (ugh cringe, I tried rewording it )
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    The best kind
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    Perfect situation for every man. Sex without the hassle of commitment, and you're not going to give him a headache when he sleeps with other girls. Perfect situation. Neither of you will have any obligation towards the other, no commitment, no rules, no stress, just simple and headache-free. He'll be VERY happy to know that you want no-strings-attached sex. No one wants commitment, relationships are too much effort.
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    I've got a friend with benefits. She's on Jobseekers Allowance and Housing Benefit.
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    (Original post by Bridget Jones)
    Don't do it. Fwb with actual friends can ruin your friendship! Even if you both don't want commitment and just want the fun, feelings will always always get involved.

    Been there, done that, got the tshirt.
    Never trust Bridget for her dating advice.

    PS: Really excited for your next movie!
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    (Original post by howtobealady)
    do you think you're ready to receive the benefits,
    (ugh cringe, I tried rewording it )
    Tories are going to chase her with a pair of scissors.
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    Okay thanks guys, general consensus is the go ahead, someone brought up the point of getting with other girls etc, I think if this situation did come about, he wouldnt get with or do anything with other gals and I dont think I would do anything with other guys either... Not sure how that would change the dynamic of things tho..
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    Do it if it makes you happy.
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    I'm in a pretty similar situation right now and have decided to go for fwb. It's fun and I'm enjoying it, there are always people that will criticise and make you feel bad for it but as long as you're both happy- there shouldn't be a problem. Obviously I can't talk from a while lot of experience as its only been going on 6 weeks, I can only offer advice as a fellow 18 year old from Scotland ❤️
 
 
 
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