Really upset and angry at her!..

Hey everyone...

Recently i have been talking to a really nice guy and both like eachother and i felt something there with him..etc, then i told one of my closest best friends (who ive known since i was 6, 18 now)..abt him and she was really happy for me..then the next day she goes out of her way to get his msn and start flirting with him :mad:

..i dont get it!! Shes my closest friend and she goes and does that..and he told me she wanted to go on webcam for him but he said no..then today she told me she started talking to him again and said to me that 'he doesn't really talk abt you lollolol' .. :frown:

im so upset with her on why she started flirting with him, cos she told me she started saying to him 'YOUR HOT'..etc..im really upset :frown:

sorry for babbling on..just reallyy dont know wot to do, when i think i've found someone, she goes and tries to take him away :frown:

...and i dont want to tell her how i feelcos then it'll hurt her feelings as i've known her 3/4 of my life..what do i do? any suggestions

Thank you for reading all that.

Reply 1

Trigger

18

get a back bone

Reply 2

sparkler

11

she's a bitch. in my opinion.

Reply 3

supernova2

11

Shes probably just messing about. Don't take it seriously, lots of people call lots of other people hot, it doesn't mean they want to steal them off their friends.

Reply 4

bunthulhu

14

Trigger

get a back bone

Don't be so harsh, that was uncalled for.

OP, she's not your friend, she sounds like a nasty, immature girl. Try and avoid her in future?

Reply 5

Trigger

18

Reply 6

lilac!!

15

what a cow!

tbh if you like this guy i say you should tell him but speek to your friend, you said she is your cloest friend since you where 6! then tell her how you feel

Reply 7

*pink_sapphires*

1

sparkler

she's a bitch. in my opinion.

I agree. I've been in similar situations. It's a horrible feeling to have but she iisn't a good friend and isn't worth your time and neither is he.

Hope you're feeling better soon :hugs:

Reply 8

bunthulhu

14

Trigger

Perhaps you need to have a best friend to be able to understand why it hurts when they betray you.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

bunthulhu

Don't be so harsh, that was uncalled for.

OP, she's not your friend, she sounds like a nasty, immature girl. Try and avoid her in future?

i just dont want to hurt her feelings cos shes the type of person who seeks for attention but anything critical said to her, she'll break down.

I can't really avoid her cos i see her every week

Reply 10

bunthulhu

14

Anonymous

i just dont want to hurt her feelings cos shes the type of person who seeks for attention but anything critical said to her, she'll break down.

I can't really avoid her cos i see her every week

Yeah but she's obviously trying to hurt your feelings. She should get as good as she gives. Personally I'd just give her a bit of the cold shoulder, and see how she reacts. If she just gets pissy with you, despite it being her own fault, then definitely forget about her. Although I guess the 'nice' thing to do would be to talk to her about it.

Reply 11

Trigger

18

bunthulhu

Perhaps you need to have a best friend to be able to understand why it hurts when they betray you.

oooh yes i dont have anyfriends thats why i am so hostile :frown:

oooooor if my so called mate deliberatly went behind my back i would (shock horror#0 ask her what the hell she was playing at. now where do i insert the hug smilie and fake sympathy?

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

He told me he doesn't get a good vibe from her and didn't want to see her on webcam...but she keeps talking to him and most likely wrecked any chance of me and him getting together cos she keeps saying 'haha theres ur wife' wen i come online :s-smilie:

it just ruins the situation and then she continues flirting with him..

Reply 13

bunthulhu

14

Trigger

oooh yes i dont have anyfriends thats why i am so hostile :frown:

oooooor if my so called mate deliberatly went behind my back i would (shock horror#0 ask her what the hell she was playing at. now where do i insert the hug smilie and fake sympathy?

Well, there must be a reason behind your insensitivity. Maybe not everyone has your confidence? Maybe when you've been best friends with someone for over half your life, then it comes as a shock when they do something like this? Considering some of the rubbish that appears in H&R, this thread isn't really anything to complain about.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

OP

bunthulhu

Well, there must be a reason behind your insensitivity. Maybe not everyone has your confidence? Maybe when you've been best friends with someone for over half your life, then it comes as a shock when they do something like this? Considering some of the rubbish that appears in H&R, this thread isn't really anything to complain about.

thank you.

Reply 15

Trigger

18

im not complaining, i beleive that the op has a problem but they wont get anywhere pussy footing around.

Reply 16

Anthonyjm71

9

Anonymous

Hey everyone...

Recently i have been talking to a really nice guy and both like eachother and i felt something there with him..etc, then i told one of my closest best friends (who ive known since i was 6, 18 now)..abt him and she was really happy for me..then the next day she goes out of her way to get his msn and start flirting with him :mad:

..i dont get it!! Shes my closest friend and she goes and does that..and he told me she wanted to go on webcam for him but he said no..then today she told me she started talking to him again and said to me that 'he doesn't really talk abt you lollolol' .. :frown:

im so upset with her on why she started flirting with him, cos she told me she started saying to him 'YOUR HOT'..etc..im really upset :frown:

sorry for babbling on..just reallyy dont know wot to do, when i think i've found someone, she goes and tries to take him away :frown:

...and i dont want to tell her how i feelcos then it'll hurt her feelings as i've known her 3/4 of my life..what do i do? any suggestions

Thank you for reading all that.

why dont you get on her case go oi wot are you playing at tell her why are you doing this make it clear.. i thought you was a friend tell her he is spoken for i you liked him first or along those lines.. let her down gently some how.. do your best not to lose her as good mate though.. :smile:

Reply 17

bunthulhu

14

Trigger

im not complaining, i beleive that the op has a problem but they wont get anywhere pussy footing around.

Perhaps, but I'm sure you'll appreciate that your comment wasn't exactly going to help the OP! I get where you were coming from, but the phrasing could have been a little more tactful :p: