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    So Im at uni with a 3 year gf back at home. She visits every couple of weeks. One of my good mates from home (call her Jess) wanted to come up to see me as we haven't in ages to catch up on life.

    Me and Jess are planning on clubbing in the evening and she is going home the next day, is it acceptable for Jess to stay in my flat, on the floor? My girlfriend is really against it, but since we a good mates, surely she should trust me after 3 years?

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    It makes her uncomfortable. She maybe trusts you but not your friend.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So Im at uni with a 3 year gf back at home. She visits every couple of weeks. One of my good mates from home (call her Jess) wanted to come up to see me as we haven't in ages to catch up on life.

    Me and Jess are planning on clubbing in the evening and she is going home the next day, is it acceptable for Jess to stay in my flat, on the floor? My girlfriend is really against it, but since we a good mates, surely she should trust me after 3 years?

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    Go with your girlfriend on this one.

    If you're good friends with any of your flatmates, ask to sleep on their floor while Jess gets the bed and the room to herself.
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    I wouldnt have an issue with it if my boyfriend had a (girl) friend stay over


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    I recommend you don't have her stay with you. As it's just the 2 of you it seems suspect and I can understand why she wouldn't want you to have her over.
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    I wouldn't like this. Can you make the situation seem less like it's just you two together? E.g. she goes out with all your housemates and then you sleep on the sofa while she gets the room? Or your girlfriend comes up at the same time?
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    I've personally done very similar with my girlfriend at the time not having any problem with it but I guess maybe I was just lucky with who I was with.

    Do you have any history with this other girl? If not I feel it's a bit unfair saying you can't do it.
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    If you weren't with your gf would you be up for doing unspeakable things with Jess? This is at the heart of the dilemma.
 
 
 
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