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    basically since coming out 1 year ago (I'm a girl ) I haven't really met any girls. I've tried online and met a few girls on there but they all seemed a bit desperate and very keen to rush things which made things way too dramatic for my liking, so I'm wondering if there are ways to meet girl otherwise?

    I have also been to some gay bars, however they were just jam packed with boy girl couples and I'd much rather get to know someone rather than just kiss them in a club. I have never to date just met another lesbian in public or at any socials or clubs am I going to the wrong ones? I've even tried wearing flannel shirts but people just think that it's indie, so now I'm wondering what to do? I don't want to end up alone forever
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    Depends how old you are. People don't seem to mature enough to be open and approachable until they're about twenty, from my observations.
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    Depends how old you are. People don't seem to mature enough to be open and approachable until they're about twenty, from my observations.
    I just turned 20 :/
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    I just turned 20 :/
    Oh :lol: OK then. Well, I don't know what to suggest in that case.
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    im 17 and want to meet a girl because i think i may be bi / lesbian
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    Go to local bars, clubs and events and dress cool casual :pimp:

    How wil I know who else is gay in the local bars though? As I don't look obviously gay myself
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    I also want to add that I've been to my local LGBTQ and whilst it's a really nice community and I've made some nice friends, it's obviously the same people that come each week, and so far haha it's all friendzoned here so yeh? Not much luck there either
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