What is best for a guy? Either:
I'm interested to hear from both guys and girls.
- To have been in a serious(ish) relationship but not had sex?... or...
- To have had sex but not have been in a relationship?
I'm a 27 yr old male and I didn't lose it until I was 23, with a girl I was seeing on and off for about a month... it was basically just sex on 5 or so occasions with a girl I was sort of mates with.
But despite that, I pull pretty rarely. My only other experiences with girls are just randomly getting off with them in clubs and stuff.
So for these reasons it means I barely talk about girls / relationships at all. I feel like I don't have enough to talk about to actually warrant saying anything... I can't really talk about past relationships because Ive not been in a proper one. Even when I mention anything relating to sex I feel like I'm 'lying' in a way
All this in turn makes me feel like I practically am still a virgin, and that the reason I'm so quiet about these things means I'll probably remain single forever.
...but then I think back to my early 20's when I'd done practically nothing, and imagine what it'd be like now if I had people asking me about sex and I'd never done it once... that's pretty much the only way I can feel better about it
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How big of a deal is losing your V watch
- Thread Starter
- 20-10-2015 22:08
- 20-10-2015 22:21
I don't really see the obsession with losing your virginity, it'll probably be the worst sex you'll ever have. I just breathed a huge sigh of relief and did the Mr McMahon power strut all the way back home.
- 20-10-2015 22:52
Sex with someone you're good friends with is good. You can relax and learn what to do without there being pressure on you.
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- 20-10-2015 22:54
Sex with someone you're good friends with is good. You can relax and learn what to do without there being pressure on you.Spoiler:ShowTrue :O
- 20-10-2015 22:57
If you haven't lost it by the time you leave uni then you have to put it on your CV and endure a mandatory 10-minute section of your interview where the entire company lines up and laughs at you.
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- 20-10-2015 23:27
Sex is just natural when you're in a relationship, so it has never been a big deal for me.
However, I do appreciate that some people want to keep their virginity until after they're married. This NOT a deal-breaker IMO.Last edited by Indeterminate; 20-10-2015 at 23:33.
- 20-10-2015 23:32
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- 20-10-2015 23:33
I think society's emphasis on having sex with people you barely know seems rather misplaced.
There's a vast amount of good ball-slapping pornography and giant purple dildos out there to sate the lust of most sexual deviants.
And both are equally shameful.