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down in the dumps

broke up with my bf of 2yrs and 3months last week, and yes it was my decision but im just feelin abit :frown:

at the mo.

havent been single for so long and im finding it quite weird to be honest! anyone ever felt like this?
think im missin male attention really, reckon its time to go out on the pull?

plz someone reply, could do with a chat to put a smile back on this face :redface:

Reply 1

Fleece

15

Yo Kylie,

Sorry to hear you feel crap. You're bound to but it'll pass.

Course it's weird when you split up with someone you've been with for ages...it'll get easier though, and you'll prob come to love it :biggrin:

Male attention always helps in times like these - go pull and have some fun :smile:

Reply 2

kylie88

OP

1

i tried on saturday night but it felt weird, like i was cheating because iv been with him so long.

hmmm things r just abit weird right now. And i think with added pressure of going to uni at the end of this yr im abit tense.

maybe ill feel fine tomorrow, just feeling abit low today

Reply 3

Trigger

18

like i suggested to another user, a change does you good, new hair cut, top etc. Dont go on the pull if you feel too low or you might regret something later. Youl know when you feeel ok again then go get your rocks off :p:

Reply 4

Fleece

15

kylie88

i tried on saturday night but it felt weird, like i was cheating because iv been with him so long.

hmmm things r just abit weird right now. And i think with added pressure of going to uni at the end of this yr im abit tense.

maybe ill feel fine tomorrow, just feeling abit low today

yeah, it may be a bit soon. Don't see uni as a pressure, see it as the best opportunity ever :smile:

Reply 5

kylie88

OP

1

nah its just cuz i was waiting so long for Bristol to get bk to me, and iv just been to visit etc so thats what i meant by pressure. dont get me wrong,i cant wait to go! just these past few weeks have been abit hectic sortin stuff out.

thanks for all the advice girls :smile:

Reply 6

Trigger

18

bristol is awesome, youl def feel better after moving here :smile:

Reply 7

kylie88

OP

1

yeh iv just accepted there offer, so ill be comin down in october!

Reply 8

Trigger

18

wooo

Reply 9

Flank Runner

chill out, go out with friends, have some fun, you've made your decision and you wouldn't have made it unless you believed its the right choice for you, so get on with life and live it

take care and have fun

chris

Reply 10

Kagutsuchi

20

Well Kylie, you're a beautiful girl :hugs:

and I don't know why you feel down in the dumps :s-smilie:

You must have guys swarming all over you! :p:

Yes, as others has said, go out, socialise, maybe buy some new clothes and build your self esteem. Some great guy is bound to fall at your feet :wink:

Reply 11

kylie88

OP

1

u must be joking! guys swarming round me, maybe in my dreams mate! not reality!

thanks for your advice tho :smile:

Reply 12

Lucia.

16

Hey Kylie, hope you feel better soon :hugs:

Wow, congrats on Bristol! You have so much to look forward to. Think about that :smile:

Reply 13

kylie88

OP

1

thanks hun :smile:

im tryin to think about uni and the fun im guna have then but its just abit hard today, had a longgg day at work n just feelin abit poo.

thanks for replying :smile:

Reply 14

Barny

17

The best way to get over one guy is to get under another, so they say.

Reply 15

Lucia.

16

kylie88

thanks hun :smile:

im tryin to think about uni and the fun im guna have then but its just abit hard today, had a longgg day at work n just feelin abit poo.

thanks for replying :smile:

Hey no problem :smile:

Everything will be better in the morning ;yes;