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    I have hearing loss, so I am a member of a hearing loss forum on Facebook. A male messaged me and was generally really nice so I thought OK, and he helps me with looking for new hearing aids and about being an NVQ assessor as well (as that is what he does). I know it is stupid, but I gave him my number so that we could WhatsApp each other. I didn't know he was going to be obsessive. Every early morning he will message on WhatsApp and if I do not reply in about two hours, he would message me on Facebook as well asking the same thing. He always keeps telling me to take selfies and send it to him :erm:. I said no, as I do not do that kind of thing! I feel so bad if I block him because he is not being nasty it's just he's being a bit too obsessed :/ and he said to come down where he lives and he'll show me around... Jesus Wept
    Do I tell him or just get rid of him?

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    I'd say just block tbh. Otherwise you'll get into the scenario where for the next year or more you're debating how to get rid of him. It doesn't sound like you particularly like the guy more that you feel bad and want to let him down gently. Thing is if you do that he'll come up with arguments to make you feel bad etc which will be more difficult than cut and dry.
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    Seriously. Just block him
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    I'd block him. Can't stand it when people get obsessive like that.
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    (Original post by Little Popcorns)
    I'd say just block tbh. Otherwise you'll get into the scenario where for the next year or more you're debating how to get rid of him. It doesn't sound like you particularly like the guy more that you feel bad and want to let him down gently. Thing is if you do that he'll come up with arguments to make you feel bad etc which will be more difficult than cut and dry.
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    Seriously. Just block him
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    I'd block him. Can't stand it when people get obsessive like that.
    Thanks guys. Actually as soon as I posted this he has stopped messaging me lol I wonder if he is on here and he saw it? Strange!

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    (Original post by Butterfly92xo)
    Thanks guys. Actually as soon as I posted this he has stopped messaging me lol I wonder if he is on here and he saw it? Strange!

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    Now he knows your whatsapp, phone number AND forum name! He can follow you on here to!

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    He just wants a friend. Go check out his house like he offered.
 
 
 

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