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    I'm going with this boy (he is 18) but I don't feel that there any chemistry between us, so I decided to go for an older man (he is 34), and we are having an affair. he is cool with keeping our relationship secret and I think am doing the right thing. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings....... what should I do?
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    Damn, trolls are getting lazy.
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    (Original post by Jonathan Crane)
    Damn, trolls are getting lazy.
    thanks for your help!!!!
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    (Original post by Rickstahhh)
    You aren't married, so you aren't having an affair. smh.
    thanks I feel much better now
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    Why are you seeing someone when you think there's no chemistry? Bit of a ****ty thing to do, imo.
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    (Original post by OU Student)
    Why are you seeing someone when you think there's no chemistry? Bit of a ****ty thing to do, imo.
    well we been together for 3 years and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm in love with the other person
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    (Original post by angelica_1998)
    I'm going with this boy (he is 18) but I don't feel that there any chemistry between us, so I decided to go for an older man (he is 34), and we are having an affair. he is cool with keeping our relationship secret and I think am doing the right thing. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings....... what should I do?
    Well, how old are you?? because tbh going out with a 34 year old seems kinda sick, no offence...
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    Why is HE keeping it secret?
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    (Original post by bellafenton)
    Well, how old are you?? because tbh going out with a 34 year old seems kinda sick, no offence...
    Am 17 ..... well I didn't ask for your negative opinion thanks!
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    (Original post by Saint Etienne)
    Why is HE keeping it secret?
    because he is due to be married
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    Shame on you then
    Where are your morals?
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    tbh you should do what makes you happy someone is gonna get hurt but you have to decide who and if the 18 year old boy is a true friend then he will understand. I say stick to the married guy
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    (Original post by Saint Etienne)
    Shame on you then
    Where are your morals?
    well when we first started to go out I didn't know that he was due to get married, only recently I found out .................. I dnt know what to do ?!!
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    (Original post by rands2.0)
    tbh you should do what makes you happy
    At any cost?
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    (Original post by Saint Etienne)
    At any cost?
    well yeah it the guys fault for lying in the first place and she cant help it of she caught feelings leave the girl alone
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    (Original post by rands2.0)
    well yeah it the guys fault for lying in the first place and she cant help it of she caught feelings leave the girl alone
    yassssss , you go Girl

    thanks for understanding not like someone
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    (Original post by angelica_1998)
    well when we first started to go out I didn't know that he was due to get married, only recently I found out .................. I dnt know what to do ?!!
    Hang your heads in shame - that's what the pair of you should do
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    (Original post by Saint Etienne)
    Hang your heads in shame - that's what the pair of you should do
    I think that you should be ashamed at what you said the whole point of this chat room is to help her and im the only one that is actually making her feel comfortable which is more than what you are doing. no one asked for you opinion she asked for your help so go suck ur fat ugly toe
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    She asked for help
    And what would be helpful is to do what is decent
    Being part of potentially destroying a new marriage is not ok

    Don;t come here expecting everyone to comfort you when you know what you are doing is wrong
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    (Original post by Rickstahhh)
    You aren't married, so you aren't having an affair. smh.
    Wut.
    Bad troll, or just really ****ing stupid.
 
 
 
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