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    When I was in year 7-9, I met a girl that HATED me for no apparently reason. She would cut her eye at me, say rude comments about me and generally have some sort of resentment/attitude towards me, and the thing is, I didn't do ANYTHING to her. She just didn't like me. I guess from year 10-11 she started to 'Not mind me', but she occasionally used to have a little bitterness towards me. I had a close friend at the time and she liked me her perfectly fine... but not me?

    What's a reason for someone to not like you If you never did anything to them?
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    It's called haters. Just how life is. Some people will dislike you for being better than they are or out of envy
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    There will be people that will either hate you or like you. That's life. Just have to come to terms with it.
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    (Original post by loveleest)

    What's a reason for someone to not like you If you never did anything to them?
    It's called bullying. You just need to bash their head into a wall hard enough.
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    Jealousy or hating for the sake of hating, to feel superior to others.

    Don't let them get to you otherwise they'd have won.
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    Maybe she fancied you for ages before but because you never paid attention to her she now hates your guts. Just a theory
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    I heard someone give this advice once.

    Every time someone says something bad, or does something bad directed towards you, just smile and complement them.

    It's an unnatural concept, but don't hate the haters. Show them that they have nothing to hate.

    :cube:
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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    Maybe she fancied you for ages before but because you never paid attention to her she now hates your guts. Just a theory
    I doubt that lool, I'm a girl myself
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    (Original post by CoolCavy)
    just try to ignore them and stick your love glasses on
    https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...f8a4a590ac.jpg
    These are far better: http://www.trixiemattel.com/product/hateblockers/
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    I doubt that lool, I'm a girl myself
    Oh sorry I assumed you were a guy as this is in the relationship section. Maybe she is just mean or jealous of you.
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    Ignore her, bullies just want attention, if she does say something to you, just ask her what her problem is
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Some people will dislike you for being better than they are or out of envy
    Or (mis)interpret your conduct as demonstrative of pride/vanity. Sometimes it's as well to humbly correct these impressions, other times it is simply their problem
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    I think it might be because some people feel envious ... so they despise themselves and see in others the things they couldn't achieve .... I always found it very weird .. but that's the way some people live by comparing themselves to others ....
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    I went to school with a girl like her. She was in my social group in year 7, then one day she apparently said she didn't like me and wanted my now best friend to pick between us. My friend picked me and we didn't speak to the girl for almost 4 years. One day out of nowhere the girls friend somehow forced her to talk to us. I didn't actually remember this story until my friend reminded me last year, I thought we just stopped talking. I had no idea the girl didn't like me, either way I didn't care lol.
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Or (mis)interpret your conduct as demonstrative of pride/vanity. Sometimes it's as well to humbly correct these impressions, other times it is simply their problem
    Nothing to correct,I have always shown respect to those who show respect back,I don't care much about haters,it's a wasted energy and they're irrelevant
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Nothing to correct, I have always shown respect to those who show respect back
    Not much point trying to set the record straight with disrespectful haters, for sure, but not everyone is either disrespectful foe or else respectful ally :beard:

    I don't care much about haters,it's a wasted energy and they're irrelevant
    Preach, sister! :bhangra:
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    Some people won't like you for whatever reason, it can't be helped. Just ignore it and live your life.
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    Haters. All haters are upset with themselves and therefore need to bring other people down for satisfaction.

    There's a lot of haters on TSR - especially some of the girls.
 
 
 
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