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    Hi guys I hope you're all well.

    I'm having an issue, and i have done so for a long time now.

    I was always shy as a kid, I never really spoke much and now i'm being forced to speak and meet people all the time. I unfortunately, feel like because of how shy i used to be, I never learnt HOW to have a conversation with someone and HOW to interact and connect with people. In a group of people, in which it's not just me who's keeping the conversation going, i'm completely fine. I'm funny, i'm talkative, i'm bubbly. There's not a single person who would describe me as low in confidence or boring, people are constantly telling me how there would never be a boring day without me. However, the reality is, when I am alone with someone I simply do not know how to hold conversations. So i'm awkward and I get nervous and shy.

    What can i do about this? I know I have a great personality it is just trapped behind a wall of anxiety and lack of real social skills . This mixed with university, just sucks.

    What can i do ?
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