This song by Adele reminded me of my ex. I need advice on what I should do.
Basically in high school he was one of the more out there guys. Like he slept around a bit. But at 16 one night I told him something personal about me and him I. Fast forward we were going out and it was going really well.
But at the football game in front of the whole school the girl he was cheating on me with declared it to the whole school. I was embarrassed and shocked etc.
The thing was that a year later now she left and told me the truth. That basically he was drunk 😵 and accidently told her my secret. But if he didn't go along with what she said that she would tell everyone. So he kinda had to keep it quiet to protect me.
The fact that he would do that and make me hate him for a while makes me feel guilty. I don't know what to do tbh. Should I say thanks or...
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he cheated but... guilty watch
- Thread Starter
- 25-10-2015 09:19
- 25-10-2015 09:23
This is all very immature and how kids act playing at relationships, not adults. Obviously you can't trust this guy if he cheats or tells personal secrets, being drunk isn't an excuse. I have so many secrets of my friends and partner yet I've never blurted them out when drunk. That's a character thing and not an alcohol thing I'm afraid.
- 25-10-2015 09:27
Completely agree with AvaAdore. Being drunk is not an excuse - drunk or sober, my friends and partners don't spill my secrets. You can't trust him. Just move on and find someone who you can trust
- Thread Starter
- 25-10-2015 20:44
- 30-10-2015 15:24
Haha it's 100% a lie. What reason would that girl have for blackmailing you? There's also no reason why he could have gone along with it but told you she was going to do that or explain himself. I'm sorry but this is just some bull**** trying to cover his arse. Please don't even think about saying thanks... He was a ****. If there was an issue he should have talked to you about it not make you think that he cheated on you. Cut this guy out your life asap
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