Basically I'm taking a girl to a restaurant called Rodizio Rico near Bayswater. I don't really like meat that much but she lives really close to it and hopefully afterwards we'll go back to her flat.
So my question is,
Towards the end of the meal, what things can I say to casually suggest that we go back to her place?
I usually don't say much, and hope and pray that they just say something like "your place or mine?" - but they never do . So then I say something like 'shall we get a coffee back at my flat?' - but this time, its her flat, and I don't know how to invite myself in...
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- Thread Starter
- 25-10-2015 14:02
- 25-10-2015 14:04
go to a restaurant which serves yummy food. At least then you can say you've enjoyed the meal.
- 25-10-2015 14:11
Bring a change of clothes, accidentally spill food over yourself and ask if you can go 'change' at her house.
- 25-10-2015 14:17
Last time I invited my self to a girls house was to show her this music video.
- 25-10-2015 14:28
Walk her home right in front of her door and then try to kiss her. Rest should work out if it needs to work out. It might be a dead end do or she needs more time.
- 25-10-2015 14:30
Sometimes just be blunt and tell her "can I walk you home your place is a lot closer than mine,"
and then follow with "I don't know what you've got going on the rest of today, but what you say we kick back a while longer"?Last edited by Oh no not again!; 25-10-2015 at 14:33.
- 25-10-2015 14:38
Is this a first date? If so, don't try at all to go back to her flat. In fact, I'd say that if this is not your first date with her but it is still a newish relationship. Girls can tell if the ultimate motive of the date is to get back to their flat so you can have sex. Big turn off for most girls (perhaps not all). Most girls want to feel that you are taking them out because you value her as a person, her personality, her intellect and hopefully you let her know you find her attractive but not just so you can have sex. Respect her, value her and in time the rest will play out but don't set out on a date just so you can head back to her flat.
- 25-10-2015 14:41
One step at a time. First she has to like you enough to want this.
- 25-10-2015 14:54
It sounds like a first date to me, so definitely don't go suggesting you go back to her flat. She's going to assume all you want is sex and by asking to go back it sounds it, instead, wait and see if she suggests it. By all means walk her home as its a nice thing to do, if she wants to invite you in then she will. Good luck!
- 25-10-2015 15:00
Say there's something else you want to eat back at hers.
- Thread Starter
- 25-10-2015 15:30
HI thanks for your replies.
Its not the first date. We went out on Friday night too. That time we met near my flat, i invited her back for coffee, she had coffee, gave me a kiss and left.