fake or real love? ( LONG POST )

hey guys, really need ur adivice on this one

well its like this i met this girl in class a few months back..but we never talked or even said hi...but she was always giving these mean stares like (get out of my way) style....anyways i never liked the class so stopped it.

but i had to comeback for another classs at the same institute..this is exactly almost 8 months after...and guess what she is the receptionist working part time... so still we never talked i talk abt fees and stuff with this other guy...

Suddenly 3 weeks after (the class takes place only once a weeek)..i had a class and once it was over was just waiting arnd chatting with the other guy at the reception...then she started talking in a mean way...then i hit her with sarcasm..and pofff we stared off talking like really close buddies in just 3 or 4 minutes..she i was like talking really personal stuff...and i was shocked abt woulkd anyone tell someone abt everything on the first day they meet?...a

anyways so figured out that she lives kinda close by to my place...so she asked me to if i could walkwith her...i dUh said ok and did...and she started asking all these questions abt my personality and stuff and kept saying i am like that tooo....good news...so i was like fine..then she persisted that she'd byme a drink and she did..finally kept on talking abt just random stuff and i asked her howcome she walked the rest of the days here?..she said she had no other choice...and she said she trusted me...(like she figured me out in one day)....so was like ok...then she told me that she would by me lunch next week...and asked whether i am going to the theaters next weeek. i said maybe and then she said i might not....but if u are going u can take me too....

that was that dya

today we werer never suppose to meet..but she had my cell number...and calls me and tells that she is alone at this net cafe and she is scared to walk alone and asked if i cld come...luckinly for her i was nearby hanging arnd with ma mates...so i did go and meet her and she was like really happy...and thanked me for coming...and we kept on talking abt personal stuff and u know...

so question is
1) Is she just using me for some stupid purpose?...am i getting abused for some reason?.

2) or does she like me as in really like me like me??...if so how can i find out?....

pls any help is appreciated

ps - i think i might have feelings for her too....

Reply 1

A.Jitto

pls guys anyone....i feel as if my heart is being ripped out and cut with a rusted knife....

Reply 2

Angelil

Hmm, sounds tricky.
I would say that you shouldn't give too much of yourself too fast, i.e. committing yourself by way of (say) a relationship or (perhaps worse) a one-night stand before you've worked out what she's about. Carry on trundling along with it. You can take things slowly as it were, and end it if you don't like her intentions before you get too deeply embroiled. Worst that can happen if you only take things slowly is that you get made a fool of.
Plus, it could well only be that she's been too nervous about talking to you nicely before if she wasn't sure what you thought of her, hence the 'treat him mean, keep him keen' act. I personally don't understand those kinds of mind games, but it might be what she's doing.

Reply 3

LipGloss

She sounds like she likes you, but she's evidently got some serious issues. Some girls get all mean and defensive when they like a guy, really don't know why. I'd be a bit scared of her if I were you. :smile:

Reply 4

A.Jitto

thanks guys for ur advice...me too i am soo confused scared and ****...but then again she sometimes talks abt other boys whom she does say that she doesnt have a crush but she finds something admiring in them...and she never told me what she admired abt me....dang...and oh yeh she prefers being friends with boys than girls...but she never lets any boy touch her or anything...and then the trouble is my finals are up ( A levels ) in june and will be off to uni in septemeber..and this thing happens now and i am really confused every time i try to study she comes into mind...and its a painful feeling i am undergoing...dont wanna mess up my finals though...but at the same time cant keep her away from my mind...but eventhough she talks abt other boys she never commented abt me or anything...i think i also didnt so far....

???...pls advice on this. I am pathetic coz this is the first time i had feeling like this for a girl and it seems rather painful...

Reply 5

A.Jitto

any advice??..pls?? :frown:

Reply 6

ImCaroline

Sounds like you might be readung too deep into things. chillax. Maybe she just has an open personality. If its screwing you up that much you should ask her about it. its better to ask n find out she doesnt like you than not to ask n never know. and if she doesnt hu cares you going uni! Youre better off being single at uni anyway ide say.

Reply 7

A.Jitto

thanks caroline...i wish this thing cld work out..but the feeling is killing me...so is it best to ask her whether or not knowing she likes me, whether she likes me or not?

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