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    I asked this girl at uni I like if she would like to have lunch with me at this milkshake place she always talks about and she said yes but invited her friend along. I said 'oh I thought it would be fun if just the two of us went together' and she said 'my friend really wanted to go and i think this is more fun as a group thing but we can hangout another time'.
    The next week I ask if she wants to go on a run with me and we ended up just walking down to the beach and sitting on a log together. Now I think i messed up because I was too scared to do anything, we just sat and talked but it was like 11pm, cold, dark and we didnt stay long so I asked if we could go back there to see the sunset. We're going tomorrow evening.I was planning on just sitting down next to her and putting my arm around her and seeing if she pulls away or not, will that come across as creepy? we have only met up a few times before but I know i need to do something soon or she will just see me as a friend forever. I want to know the best way to let her know how I feel without being weird about it. I went to a strict catholic school and have only kissed a girl once while drunk so i have no idea what im doing.tl;dr going to beach with girl I like, how do i make a move?Thanks in advance!
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    I asked this girl at uni I like if she would like to have lunch with me at this milkshake place she always talks about and she said yes but invited her friend along. I said 'oh I thought it would be fun if just the two of us went together' and she said 'my friend really wanted to go and i think this is more fun as a group thing but we can hangout another time'.
    The next week I ask if she wants to go on a run with me and we ended up just walking down to the beach and sitting on a log together. Now I think i messed up because I was too scared to do anything, we just sat and talked but it was like 11pm, cold, dark and we didnt stay long so I asked if we could go back there to see the sunset. We're going tomorrow evening.I was planning on just sitting down next to her and putting my arm around her and seeing if she pulls away or not, will that come across as creepy? we have only met up a few times before but I know i need to do something soon or she will just see me as a friend forever. I want to know the best way to let her know how I feel without being weird about it. I went to a strict catholic school and have only kissed a girl once while drunk so i have no idea what im doing.tl;dr going to beach with girl I like, how do i make a move?Thanks in advance!
    The arm around move seems a little creepy. I would go for the hand hold while walking along the beach first. Then once sitting down watching the sunset go for the kiss.

    Arm around indicates ownership and it will be a turn off for this to occur before what I have described above.
 
 
 
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