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    so this guy i met online i dated for around 5 months, and when we broke up (i cheated) he slept with his friend that same night, since then hes been sending **** pics and telling me what they do, however last night tthey had a threesome and he is thinking of ending it with her- i have feelings for him but there is another guy i like (from school) and im not as sexual as him, what do i do?
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    Was it a MMF or MFF threesome that he had?
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    It sounds like you have mixed feelings all over the place. Take some time to yourself no need to jump around to different beds all the time.
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    Block contact with him, you're in a very messy situation and you need to take a few steps back and think about what is going on.
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    (Original post by That 2Fase)
    Was it a MMF or MFF threesome that he had?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so this guy i met online i dated for around 5 months, and when we broke up (i cheated) he slept with his friend that same night, since then hes been sending **** pics and telling me what they do, however last night tthey had a threesome and he is thinking of ending it with her- i have feelings for him but there is another guy i like (from school) and im not as sexual as him, what do i do?
    This is a difficult one though I'm trying to put myself in your shoes as best I can. My instinct is to distrust this person, he seems a few sandwiches short of a picnic in all honesty though I do acknowledge that finding out you'd been cheated on can cause you act a bit out of character. Ultimately though, you know what's been going on better than you'd ever be able to explain it to people on the internet, follow your instincts, what do they tell you?
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    This is a difficult one though I'm trying to put myself in your shoes as best I can. My instinct is to distrust this person, he seems a few sandwiches short of a picnic in all honesty though I do acknowledge that finding out you'd been cheated on can cause you act a bit out of character. Ultimately though, you know what's been going on better than you'd ever be able to explain it to people on the internet, follow your instincts, what do they tell you?
    idk- i want him but he lives so far
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    idk- i want him but he lives so far
    I know the feels, I genuinely do and I can understand why you cheated though I don't at all condone it. As an outsider looking in, I feel that the reason that you cheated previously would still exist upon entering another relationship with this man, and for his own sake as well as your own, my personal opinion is that it isn't fair on either of you.

    I tend not to enter any actual relationship at the moment because I know in my heart that they won't work out, it doesn't mean that I don't go out and meet people, I still get to have sex, and I still have great company in terms of friends. I used to just jump into the first relationship I could find and eventually it got to the point where everything was falling apart. I think you know if a relationship will or will not work prior to entering one and I think you should trust your insticts because only you can make the right decision for yourself.
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