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    Hey,
    Basically since puberty ive suffered from a breast abnormality, severe tubular breasts for those that know what it is, and a few months back i underwent correctional surgery that involved implants and a lift. Since then i now have my first serious thing with a boy, and i am absolutley terrified of him finding out by feeling something he isnt used to or something. I was planning on not taking my bra off untill my scars arent noticable anymore but i am genuinley losing sleep over this. He is lovely and i know he would be understanding but i cant see myself being able to talk about what i went through any time soon. Do you guys think he would be able to tell any difference to what hes experinced before, or mind? I just have no idea on how to deal with this
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    he might notice, but i don't think he'll care tbh, most guys wouldn't. If he actually loved you he defiantly wouldn't care - i wouldn't care if my girl had anything wrong with her body because i don't ever want to be without her - think about it if you ever have kids you most likely ruin parts of your body anyway.. so find someone who loves you and doesn't care if you have a different body
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    I'd much rather my girlfriend straight up told me she had surgery before we did anything rather than keep it a secret and hope I never found out. It wouldn't change my opinion of her in the slightest, but I'd no that she isn't trying to deceive me.
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    I think it's best if you tell him. Nothing worse than finding out a partner has been trying to hide something from you.
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    Just be honest with him and tel him about the surgery. If he is really bothered by it, he isn't worth it and shouldn't see them anyway
 
 
 
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