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    I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt
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    Because you haven't been with many women.



    A man can only love in a genuine way, once he's hardened himself he's got that thousand yard stare.
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    (Original post by Masih ad-Dajjal)
    Because you haven't been with many women.



    A man can only love in a genuine way, once he's hardened himself he's got that thousand yard stare.
    and how does one "harden himself"?
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    (Original post by Masih ad-Dajjal)
    Because you haven't been with many women.



    A man can only love in a genuine way, once he's hardened himself he's got that thousand yard stare.
    Ive not been with any girl
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    God you don't make for a very good boyfriend if you're constantly falling in love both you and her wouldn't know whether you're coming or going.

    It's just hormones you have to learn to be grown up about it. Yes they might all be pretty or nice but those alone don't make for good relationships/sex/whatever you're looking for. Unless you want to find yourself perpetually searching for greener grass I suggest you have a focus and accept that you can't have it all. Imagine how horribly overwhelming that's be anyway.

    Just be a big boy basically.
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    (Original post by Shadez)
    and how does one "harden himself"?
    You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:
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    (Original post by ILovePancakes)
    You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:
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    (Original post by ILovePancakes)
    You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:
    This chick knows fam, wife her asap.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt
    Probably because you are yearning deeply for a relationship.
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    Hormones raging
    Happens to me. I have two crushes in my class
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt
    Hate to question on this...but how was your upbringing?
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    Same problem *rolls eyes*
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    (Original post by ILovePancakes)
    You get hard and do something with it innit :teehee:
    Yeh but how does one get hard?
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    (Original post by ZuluK)
    Yeh but how does one get hard?
    Dw I will teach u
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    Sometimes I feel so lucky to be asexual :lol:
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    (Original post by cbreef)
    Hate to question on this...but how was your upbringing?
    What do you want to know exactly?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I get feelings for almost any girl that talks to me. And I start romantically fantasising about her a lot Idk if this is very healthy and it leaves me open to a lot of dissapointment/hurt
    Meh, I have the opposite problem, I hate almost everyone that so much as though looks at me. So yeah... your in a better position to some extent

    But that isn't healthy, so find a hobby or something
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What do you want to know exactly?
    Do you have good relationships with your parents and siblings
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    (Original post by cbreef)
    Do you have good relationships with your parents and siblings
    Yes
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes
    Then i am **** out of ideas
 
 
 
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