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    Probably still get called sexist.
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    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    A young adult male, who has never had any relationship with any girl, not even befriended one. He is very respectful, has the nice guy type personality. Respects women a lot and is very soft and gentle when interacting/dealing with them. Is of dominant nature and although can be what others call as alpha male, when necessary, but usually avoids it, is strong, courageous but never shows it. All this makes him look too nice; and among the typical male type that we see these days, this type of man who cares too much about people is seen as weak. What are your opinions on this man?

    P.S. the purpose of asking this question is to understand what is generally accepted/not accepted in western society.
    This man sounds very nice but not very socially confident - especially because he has never befriended a girl. Do you have a relation with this man?
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    I'd think that you--I mean--that the guy might be Amish or lives in a secluded society, or is simply secluded in himself/insecure. And it would take a miracle to assimilate him into a modern social life bumped and bruised free.
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    Does he wear a fedora?
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    Sounds fine. I'd probably feel comfortable having a conversation with someone with that personality. I'd wonder why he's never had a friendship with a girl though like is he from a secluded background but it wouldn't be a huge issue.
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    (Original post by misscaricature)
    Sounds fine. I'd probably feel comfortable having a conversation with someone with that personality. I'd wonder why he's never had a friendship with a girl though like is he from a secluded background but it wouldn't be a huge issue.
    because of religious reasons.
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    It triggers me to the high heavens
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    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    because of religious reasons.
    Oh okay. Does this person want to have a friendship with a girl?
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    What the hell is 'the nice guy type personality'?, most people are nice, and they are all different, there isn't a certain way which all 'nice guys' behave.

    Don't even get me started on 'the generally accepted male type these days', lol
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    Too much detail, has to be you OP.
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    (Original post by John55)
    What the hell is 'the nice guy type personality'?, most people are nice, and they are all different, there isn't a certain way which all 'nice guys' behave.
    True.
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    I don't think he can be described as alpha male if he has never had any kind of a relationship with a girl. I think part of being an alpha male is the level of social confidence present, which this character doesn't seem to have. If that is part of his nature then it would come to the surface regardless of whether he tries not to show it, and a degree of relationships with women would come with that surfacing. I don't think he can be seen as an alpha male at all with this considered.

    Also, a lot depends on his age. I don't think we can conclude that this guy is "weak" in the social sense of the word if he is under 14 years old. The chances are that he may he may have a degree of social ineptness if he is older than that, given how socialisation is generally structured in the western world.
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    Aww, almost the man of my dreams, pretty much the same as my boyfriend
    I like that type of guys, both to be friends with and to date.


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    Alpha male does not mean what you think it means.

    As for not having any relationships with females, well that's not unusual. Not even having one as a friend? That's weirder.

    I would avoid. It sounds like you're describing a killer - Elliot Rodger type.
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    Why didn't you just say a humble (strong)/modest male?
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    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    A young adult male, who has never had any relationship with any girl, not even befriended one. He is very respectful, has the nice guy type personality. Respects women a lot and is very soft and gentle when interacting/dealing with them. Is of dominant nature and although can be what others call as alpha male, when necessary, but usually avoids it, is strong, courageous but never shows it. All this makes him look too nice; and among the generally accepted male type that we see these days, this type of man who cares too much about people is seen as weak. What are your opinions on this man?

    P.S. the purpose of asking this question is to understand what is generally accepted/not accepted in western society.
    is this you?
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    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    A young adult male, who has never had any relationship with any girl, not even befriended one.
    - good age
    - meh. Who cares? That's better than him being super super close to one girl and the girlfriend gets all paranoid. Definitely better than having ex's who may try to ruin everything.

    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    He is very respectful, has the nice guy type personality. Respects women a lot and is very soft and gentle when interacting/dealing with them.
    - respectful? Great
    - nice personality? Awesome
    - rest is fab

    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    Is of dominant nature and although can be what others call as alpha male, when necessary, but usually avoids it, is strong, courageous but never shows it.
    - dominance is good. There's a definitive line between dominant and controlling though.
    - alpha male is a down side but no one is perfect innit
    - never shows courage what?

    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    All this makes him look too nice;
    -I'll be the judge of that thank you v much (jks looll)

    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    and among the generally accepted male type that we see these days,
    Accepted males types who acc exist are v few so this must be good
    (Original post by Warrior Gene)
    this type of man who cares too much about people is seen as weak. What are your opinions on this man?
    That can be annoying because if I wanna do something and they say "well yeah I would but others will say blabla" that would be annoying :/ but we all sometimes consciously or subconsciously care about what others think. The point where it becomes obsessive is unacceptable imo.

    I think this man is decent lel. Could be better could be worse

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    You sound like a virgin
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    (Original post by angelcake123)
    - never shows courage what?

    That can be annoying because if I wanna do something and they say "well yeah I would but others will say blabla" that would be annoying :/
    :facepalm: my english
 
 
 
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