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    I am 18 year old female, I've always loved getting attention of boys and getting with them, but never in my life have i had a spiritual connection with them, i've never liked anyone, i get bored of them after a day or two... I genuinely think sometimes i might even be a lesbian, i'm always admiring girls beauty more than boys and prefer lesbian porn (sorry to be forward lol - maybe I just need to experiment or maybe it's because I'm still young.... I'm just really confused
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    (Original post by anoncaz1)
    I am 18 year old female, I've always loved getting attention of boys and getting with them, but never in my life have i had a spiritual connection with them, i've never liked anyone, i get bored of them after a day or two... I genuinely think sometimes i might even be a lesbian, i'm always admiring girls beauty more than boys and prefer lesbian porn (sorry to be forward lol - maybe I just need to experiment or maybe it's because I'm still young.... I'm just really confused
    It was found a lot (I think it was 70% but can't remember the source) of female porn-watchers watch lesbian porn, so its not unusual! I have been known to, as well and I'm straight. I always admire female beauty as like 'omg she's so hot' but I think its something most girls do, like we'd want to look like them or just admire them.

    Saying that, you might be lesbian. Or bi. Just do what feels right and don't worry about a label!

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    It doesn't even matter, what's with the desperate need to label yourself, just do what (and who) you want to do. If you wake up one day and think, 'you know what, I'm a Zebra', then dammit girl, your a Zebra!
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    If using a label helps then use it but don't stress over it. You might be attracted to guys sexually but not romantically. Also what porn you watch doesn't equal what you would like to do, porn is just a fantasy, entertainment. But if you find you're imaging yourself in lesbian porn or in a relationship with a girl then it could be a clue.
    Finally, if you are going to experiment make sure you're completely clear with the person you're experimenting with.
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    (Original post by anoncaz1)
    I am 18 year old female, I've always loved getting attention of boys and getting with them, but never in my life have i had a spiritual connection with them, i've never liked anyone, i get bored of them after a day or two... I genuinely think sometimes i might even be a lesbian, i'm always admiring girls beauty more than boys and prefer lesbian porn (sorry to be forward lol - maybe I just need to experiment or maybe it's because I'm still young.... I'm just really confused
    What's a spiritual connection? If you think experimenting is the right thing to do, then go ahead. Just because you get bored it doesn't mean your gay.
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    Watching lesbian porn doesn't make you a lesbian. Most of girls watch it, really, because the main focus is on girls. What matters is if you can imagine being with a girl, loving her. And you may even be bisexual. But as John55 said, lables don't matter. You do. Whatever/whoever you want, it's ok.
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    Remember that there's also distinctions between sexual and romantic attractions.

    e.g. you can also have a homoromantic bisexual.

    Just to increase ways to rationalise attractions, if you so want to.

    edit: also bi-curious homosexuals, and vice versa etc. etc.
 
 
 
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