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    Im a quiet guy, and she's a quiet girl. she's older than me, but when we are alone together its awkward, she won't initiate convo and because im quiet (and i have a crush on her) my mind goes blank. When she does initiate convo i dont really know what to say back, she seems to be the same. My voice always goes deep as well for some reason. I dont know whether its me that makes it awkward or both. Anyway she also thanks me in a sweet sincere voice when i say or do something, does she think im a bit of a weak guy, because im younger? she also sometimes avoids me, like i was in this particular place and i knew she needed to go where i was but she avoided it and walked past but then she must of had a change of mind and came near me. she has also in the past sped up to avoid passing eachother, also eye contact is very minimal, but then all of a sudden she can look me in the eyes.then after this when someone else is around she is totally different, talking much easier and freely, because someone else is there she feels more comfortable?do you think she thinks im weird?
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    maybe she just doesn't see you in the same way
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    Doesn't sound as though she likes you.
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    She might like you. You both sound like you need to make an effort to reduce the awkwardness. Try and build a rapport with her. I fancied a guy all the way through uni and one day he stayed behind to talk to me. I got really awkward and just rushed off. You should avoid my awkward example.
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    If she liked you she would initiate conversation.
    Be more out-going with her, try and talk to her about something she is really interested in, and then try and bridge that onto something you're really interested it. Voila, conversation for hours.
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    (Original post by belalbenfadhel)
    If she liked you she would initiate conversation.
    Agreed. I struggled to make conversation with someone I dated because I didn't like him tbh. We had nothing in common which didn't help at all.
 
 
 
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