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    Whenever me and my boyfriend sleep together, he always finishes within the first minute. I reassure him this is fine as we haven't done it that many times and i am his first, but it puts him off wanting to try again. He does reluctantly but because he feels it will make me love him more (this is not possible) but i need advice on how to reassure him and maybe i need reassurance that this is normal.

    Ultimately, there isn't much you can do. It's a self confidence issue. Once you guys have done it enough, he probably won't feel as self conscious about it. In the meantime, just reassure him that you love him and that it doesn't matter how long it takes. It IS normal when someone isn't used to sex
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