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    * I had to made this anonymous as I'm not out yet at home.

    So I started Uni 1 month ago and I was so excited to meet other lesbians and be out. However I went to my first ever LGBTQ meeting and there were only 30 people there and it's slowly gone down to about 10 now. I've also gotten to know most of them a lot better and none of them interest me in that way . They're mostly just good friends, not love interests.

    However I have seen a few girls that have girlfriends and I'm just wondering how they meet them? As I never seem to meet gay people ever. I don't really look forward to going out as much now because before it was always exciting to the possiblity that I may meet someone but now there is just no one, and I'm feeling quite jealous cause a lot of my straight friends have boyfriends now and are in couples or they're meeting guys on nights out.

    All I'm asking is, does this get better or will being a lesbian mean that I have very little chance of having any dating life at uni ?

    Also I'd like to add that I've joined a few societies and haven't yet met any other LGBTQ ( that I know of)
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    I am in the same boat. Think there's a gay girl in my class and we say hi but I have no way of knowing as its mixed signals. Been like that 1 year boring but tough
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    Im in asimilar situation but im not out to anyone. Would proba be a good start

    I think if you are open to meeting people and be yourself it will happen
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    What uni are you at and what you studying ?
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