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    I'm less attracted to guys if I know they are attracted to women whom I don't consider all that "hot" myself not just natural beauty, but how they style themselves, etc.

    I'm bi curious so maybe that's why

    coincidentally the guys I am most attracted to personality wise also often share my taste in women
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    It's could be because you think that those girls who you consider to not be attractive must be his type and if he goes out with you then you'd consider yourself unattractive too.
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    Just when you thought women couldn't be anymore confusing....
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    (Original post by John55)
    It's could be because you think that those girls who you consider to not be attractive must be his type and if he goes out with you then you'd consider yourself unattractive too.
    Possibly. Reflecting on me maybe :lol:

    Should have said in OP this includes personality too. I don't like randomly *****y girls for example, would be turned off a guy if he was into them

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    Just when you thought women couldn't be anymore confusing....
    Nothing confusing about the OP unless you can't read lol
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    Possibly. Reflecting on me maybe :lol:

    Should have said in OP this includes personality too. I don't like randomly *****y girls for example, would be turned off a guy if he was into them



    Nothing confusing about the OP unless you can't read lol
    Are you insulting my intelligence?? Hold my purse Felicia *rolls up sleeves* Square up!
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    [QUOTE=RiotGirll;60263501]Possibly. Reflecting on me maybe :lol:

    Should have said in OP this includes personality too. I don't like randomly *****y girls for example, would be turned off a guy if he was into them


    Because if he goes out with randomly *****y girls then he probably doesn't care about personality and you want him to like your personality
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    (Original post by John55)
    Because if he goes out with randomly *****y girls then he probably doesn't care about personality and you want him to like your personality
    Some guys actually seem to prefer *****y girls, like they like a challenge

    I go for geeky guys who seem to be more passive round my town lol, maybe that's why.
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    Not really. I think it's kind of understandable considering that you're bicurious
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    (Original post by Indeterminate)
    Not really. I think it's kind of understandable considering that you're bicurious
    So you think that's the reason why?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    sorry to burst your bubble but you're not even that attractive? A 5 at best
    That's not me in my avi lmao, reverse image search it.

    Lol @ the keyboard warrior anon troll. Which basement dweller is this?
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    (Original post by AzimH)
    Just when you thought women couldn't be anymore confusing....
    Mate, I often fail to understand the BS turn on/off criteria we come up with sometimes.:rolleyes:
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    That's not me in my avi lmao, reverse image search it.

    Lol @ the keyboard warrior anon troll. Which basement dweller is this?
    I am no keyboard warrior son and I'm also not anonymous- my username is literally my name in real life. Now 1v1 me in rust u skrublord.
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    (Original post by Technetium)
    Mate, I often fail to understand the BS turn on/off criteria we come up with sometimes.:rolleyes:
    Breaking news: different people have different opinions :rolleyes:

    Congrats on hating on your own gender, I'm sure the guys on here will shower you with attention for it lol. What a special snowflake you must be.
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    So you think that's the reason why?
    Yup. I reckon it stems from the fact that you're sort of attracted to women yourself.
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    (Original post by Technetium)
    Mate, I often fail to understand the BS turn on/off criteria we come up with sometimes.:rolleyes:
    Haha after seeing all the posts about turn offs I have come to the conclusion I will remain single for the rest of my life.
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    (Original post by Indeterminate)
    Yup. I reckon it stems from the fact that you're sort of attracted to women yourself.
    I think a lot of people are a bit bicurious TBH I wouldn't actually even kiss a girl haha
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    That's not me in my avi lmao, reverse image search it.

    Lol @ the keyboard warrior anon troll. Which basement dweller is this?
    Ha. BURN.

    OP I'm like this too, even though I don't consider myself bi-curious. It's not so much that I'm worried I'd become one of the girls I dislike, but that his bad taste on girls reflects badly on his personality, just as a guy having bad taste in books would kind of turn me off too.
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    (Original post by Sempiternitas)
    Ha. BURN.

    OP I'm like this too, even though I don't consider myself bi-curious. It's not so much that I'm worried I'd become one of the girls I dislike, but that his bad taste on girls reflects badly on his personality, just as a guy having bad taste in books would kind of turn me off too.
    Thanks

    Yeah, that's also true. I've known a few guys who went for "bad girls" (the sort who were a bit violent, heavy drinkers, even got sent to prison a few times...) and they weren't necessarily violent guys themselves but definitely not nice!

    I'm not really judgmental about stuff like books, what do you consider bad taste though?
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    I'm not really judgmental about stuff like books, what do you consider bad taste though?
    Hmm. That is actually quite hard to specify. If I asked my date what books they have recently read and they said they haven't read anything for the past three years apart from autobiographies of Katie Price and some TOWIE star I'd be quite put off. (I guess that would more likely apply to a girl though!) It's not so much about reading the occasional trashy novel (ha, I'm like that myself) but their general attitude towards reading. I'm a huge bibliophile so I consider reading habits inextricably linked to personality.
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    (Original post by Sempiternitas)
    Hmm. That is actually quite hard to specify. If I asked my date what books they have recently read and they said they haven't read anything for the past three years apart from autobiographies of Katie Price and some TOWIE star I'd be quite put off. (I guess that would more likely apply to a girl though!) It's not so much about reading the occasional trashy novel (ha, I'm like that myself) but their general attitude towards reading. I'm a huge bibliophile so I consider reading habits inextricably linked to personality.
    I know a guy who has the Katie Price biography. He's gay though :lol: so wouldn't date me anyway haha!

    I used to be a bibliophile but have been working multiple jobs lately to save. I wish I had more time to read though planning on doing it after I move
 
 
 
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