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What do I do about a girl on my uni course? watch

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    There's a girl on my uni course who I've known for about two months now, when we first met I'd say we hit it off straight away and whenever I make jokes she always laughs and says she finds me funny. I'll admit I have done a bit of flirting with her recently as I've found myself starting to like her and she's been flirting back and other people in class have noticed. What should be my next step?

    Please note I have been in similar situations to this in the past but it has just resulted in me being hurt badly so I'm trying to be careful this time to avoid getting hurt again.

    Flirt to judge interest (tick)
    Some encouragement (tick)
    Ask her out..
    Yes = joy
    No = move swiftly on

    Sadly no easy way or guarantees for a guy.

    Only other option is go out on the lash with her and see what transpires..

    First of all you need to get hold of her phone number or some way of contacting her. If she's flirting back and laughing at your joke she's clearly interested in you and won't find it weird if you texted her or asked for her number therefore you have nothing to be scared about as the green lights are all there. You then casually start talking and texting more and more until you know she's definitely interested and when you're eventually confident enough that this is a girl you want to peruse all the way then you'll ask her on a date and you know the answer will be yes because you will tick of little imaginary boxes in your head along the way to make sure you aren't hurt again

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    Pump n dump.

    Have you friended her on fb? You can then private message her casually. Ask a question about the course or whatever and hopefully get into a dialogue. Be careful though not everyone likes to carry on lengthy messaging.
    So friend her on fb, think of a reason to private message her, then casually ask if she wants to go for coffee after lecture.
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