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22-year-old virgin. Bad? watch

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    This topic is mainly for a female opinion. I am a 22-year-old virgin, never had a girlfriend and never kissed a girl.

    I am wondering, even if you were attracted to me, would this fact put you off dating me or forming a relationship with me? I realise that it is abnormal to be one at this age, but I would appreciate an opinion.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This topic is mainly for a female opinion. I am a 22-year-old virgin, never had a girlfriend and never kissed a girl.

    I am wondering, even if you were attracted to me, would this fact put you off dating me or forming a relationship with me? I realise that it is abnormal to be one at this age, but I would appreciate an opinion.
    in my opinion no it just shows that you have respect for yourself and have not found the right person to be in a relationship with. it would not put me of dating u tho x
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    No it's not bad, wouldn't make a slightest difference tbh.

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    No it's not bad, it's actually really good you waited that long!
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    I think that would be an attractive quality! It's great that you've not been sleeping around, it's dirty and I couldn't date someone who had.


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    1/4 of 22 year olds are virgins so it is not that abnormal.
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    It's not about whether you're a virgin or not, it's about why you're a virgin.
    Just make sure you've got some good excuses.
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    ^what the person above me said
    The fact that you're a virgin wouldn't be a deal breaker whatsoever, but I guess it's also to do with the reason
    Like one of my guy friends is a virgin, but he's extremely attractive and girls throw themselves at him all the time, but he's just not interested in that way because he wants to actually have a proper relationship rather than random flings (like the rest of my guy friends) so to me thats a turn ON not a turn off
    Depends on the reason I suppose, but no it wouldn't make me any less attracted to you
    Just makes you more cute and innocent ^^
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    i don't see the problem
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    nothing wrong with being virgin
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    Walker?
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    (Original post by Cremated_Spatula)
    It's not about whether you're a virgin or not, it's about why your a virgin.
    Just make sure you've got some good excuses.
    What excuses would you say would be good?
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    You're a wizard Harry.
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    I'm a female 22 year old virgin.

    It wouldn't bother me at all in the slightest. In fact I'd prefer it really because it reduces pressure, and the awkwardness of being a virgin compared to having a more experienced partner.


    I feel like guys would judge me though
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What excuses would you say would be good?
    Look to the girl's replies. Definitely not "I usually prefer 2D girls." or " I'm too busy playing video games"
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What excuses would you say would be good?
    Honestly, don't make an excuse because it's looks like you're trying to qualify yourself, just be honest and say it didn't happen at high school/university and don't get hung up on it.
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    It's more common than you think and if someone is honestly interested in a serious relationship with you the fact that you're a virgin shouldn't bother them.
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    Yeah, probably best to just say you never had the opportunity.
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    It wouldn't bother me. I think it's quite an attractive and unique quality.
 
 
 
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