So angry

My bf dumped me a few weeks ago saying he was way to stressed/busy to see me and be in a relationship as he has alot of coursework and band rehearsals etc. I now have a new bf and he asked me who i was going out with a few nights ago, i told him and asked him if he was with anyone and he said oh no im way 2 busy to be going out with anyone i like being single. I just went onto his myspace and he's status changed to 'in a relationship' and he's going out with this stupid girl he used to message when we were going out. ANGRY??? yes just a bit.. do i have the right to be?? should i have a go at him??

Reply 1

poetic_harriyot

Nah. Not worth it. Rise above it and forget about it. Men aren't worth splitting hairs over. If in doubt, make girl-pudding (Ice cream + chocolate + hot chocolate + girlie movie + mates + optional teddy bear or beautifying)

Reply 2

Chocolate AssCream

Maybe he both your ex and the new guy just made up the busy excuse to spare your feelings?

Anonymous

ANGRY??? yes just a bit.. do i have the right to be?? should i have a go at him??

Yeh...that won't make you seem crazy :rolleyes:

Reply 3

bunthulhu

14

How long were you together for?

Reply 4

curiositysatisfied

Maybe when he found out about you going out with someone new he felt jealous and pissed (although he has no right to be) and decided to get with this girl as a form of vengeance. I wouldn’t have a go at him; he’s clearly an idiot. If you really want to though it wouldn’t be the worst thing. Depends how much you feel you need closure. Good luck x

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

bunthulhu

How long were you together for?

only 2 months but i was fallin in love with him and he spoke about us being together in the future etc..........

Reply 6

poetic_harriyot

Anonymous

only 2 months but i was fallin in love with him and he spoke about us being together in the future etc..........

Please excuse me while I try not to choke on my own tongue with laughter. Get over it, girl. That's pathetic.

Reply 7

bunthulhu

14

Anonymous

only 2 months but i was fallin in love with him and he spoke about us being together in the future etc..........

Okay, 2 months is not long. He obviously wasn't right for you. Try and put it behind you.

Reply 8

username47781

20

Oh come on your being stupid, just ignore your ex and grow up.

Reply 9

Trigger

18

you have a new bf :s-smilie:

im sure hes loving this. ignore himhes probably happy and soshould you be

Reply 10

Naruca

Well once a man lies, you have all the right to be angry. But as someone stated above.. is it really worth the hassle? Give it a thought, maybe talk to him, but try to put this stress of of your way, cuz I'm sure it's the last thing you need.

Reply 11

Mr. Mortell

11

Seriously shouldn't be angry he lied to you probably so as not to hurt your feelings. How old are you by the way?

Reply 12

ASprinkleOfPixieDust

You have the right to be p'd off but I wouldn't have a go you'd probably just give him a big head and he'd talk about it to the new gf-she might start getting at you etc-just not worth it...also it's much more fun to bitch to your girlfriends instead go out with them it'll be much more satisfying than screaming at some silly bloke and letting him know he got to you.

Reply 13

Leigh

15

Are you still friends? If so, you have a right, I suppose to be annoyed at him for him being a friend and lying to you. But he doesn't really owe you anything as far as relationships go; you don't have any right to be angry at him as his ex-. You moved on, he has every right to.

Reply 14

Soul Rebel

12

Who gives a ****? You have a new boyfriend, who cares if he lied to you, your not together, he can do as he wants.

And 2 months? deary me thats nothing.

Reply 15

Unregistered

Anonymous

My bf dumped me a few weeks ago saying he was way to stressed/busy to see me and be in a relationship as he has alot of coursework and band rehearsals etc. I now have a new bf and he asked me who i was going out with a few nights ago, i told him and asked him if he was with anyone and he said oh no im way 2 busy to be going out with anyone i like being single. I just went onto his myspace and he's status changed to 'in a relationship' and he's going out with this stupid girl he used to message when we were going out. ANGRY??? yes just a bit.. do i have the right to be?? should i have a go at him??

What would that acheive? If he wasn't man enough to tell you he'd found someone else then i'd go and shake him by the hand. He did you a favour.

Reply 16

graemematt

12

Soul Rebel

Who gives a ****? You have a new boyfriend, who cares if he lied to you, your not together, he can do as he wants.

And 2 months? deary me thats nothing.

2 months is nothing. This seems fairly pointless, sorry to say. You remind me of my ex-girlfriend...she was devastated for possibly longer than the 2 months we were going out for after I dumped her. And trust me, I'm not exactly a stud.

Some girls just find this thing harder...but you've got a new bf...if you're not happy with him, then leave him before it gets serious and be single for a while, whilst you collect your feelings together.

Reply 17

fundamentally

15

Anonymous

I just went onto his myspace and he's status changed to 'in a relationship' and he's going out with this stupid girl he used to message when we were going out. ANGRY??? yes just a bit.. do i have the right to be??

It will just make you sound desperate.

Reply 18

devils_nose

10

I think its a bit mean to discount the OP's strength of feeling just because the relationship was only 2 months.. sometimes you do fall quickly and hard!!

That said, if you (the OP) have moved on sufficiently to be going out with someone new, then you should expect him to have done the same. Its a bit disrespectful to your new bf to still be so hung up and angry about your ex!!

Reply 19

kinkajou

15

I feel sorry for the new boyfriend because you evidently don't care enough about him if you are still angry at an ex. If your ex has a new girlfriend then good for him, it didn't take you long to move on so why should he hang around. Fair enough he may have lied to you at the time. He obviously wasn't right for you and perhaps you've both had a good escape. Get over it & grow up.

So angry

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