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    Hi there, even though I'm a lad, I have literally just experienced something really similar to you! My two main friends and I seemed inseparable, until they started to try to enforce their opinions on me, along with their interests. For a while we just went along, I would listen to their rants, their new favourite TV shows and just listen even if it disagreed with me.
    however as it turned out, over this time they must have been getting annoyed and bad mouthing me, because one day when I dropped out of a cinema arrangement I received a horrible text with a whole list of my flaws, annoying aspects, and as they put it "reasons to hate me".
    as for what to do, I genuinely reccomend moving away from them completely. I tried to go along with the awkward atmosphere, especially because there were a few people we all got along with who weren't part of the conspiracy- but about two months later it turned out they had all been sharing my texts, posting secrets about me online and turning people at school against me. And the worst part, I gave them the ammunition by giving them another chance. In my opinion, any time where name calling or personality assassination is involved is a time when you need to move on as fast as possible.
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    Hi there, even though I'm a lad, I have literally just experienced something really similar to you! My two main friends and I seemed inseparable, until they started to try to enforce their opinions on me, along with their interests. For a while we just went along, I would listen to their rants, their new favourite TV shows and just listen even if it disagreed with me.
    however as it turned out, over this time they must have been getting annoyed and bad mouthing me, because one day when I dropped out of a cinema arrangement I received a horrible text with a whole list of my flaws, annoying aspects, and as they put it "reasons to hate me".
    as for what to do, I genuinely reccomend moving away from them completely. I tried to go along with the awkward atmosphere, especially because there were a few people we all got along with who weren't part of the conspiracy- but about two months later it turned out they had all been sharing my texts, posting secrets about me online and turning people at school against me. And the worst part, I gave them the ammunition by giving them another chance. In my opinion, any time where name calling or personality assassination is involved is a time when you need to move on as fast as possible.
    I'm sorry to hear about that. The feeling is absolutely horrible. Thank you for sharing your story with me, and I think I will move on because it's not doing me any good. Thank you again, and I hope everything is okay for you now.
 
 
 
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