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    So basically I met this guy around a week ago. However after just one day we broke up because I called him a Jerk. The reason why I called him a jerk is because he calls himself Awesome Genius and he would not tell me his real name and he thinks hes superior to everyone else, (Which he is but still..). But now thinking about it I think im in love with him so what should I do?
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    (Original post by Kholmes1)
    So basically I met this guy around a week ago. However after just one day we broke up because I called him a Jerk. The reason why I called him a jerk is because he calls himself Awesome Genius and he would not tell me his real name and he thinks hes superior to everyone else, (Which he is but still..). But now thinking about it I think im in love with him so what should I do?
    Fake a pregnancy and confront him on the Jeremy Kyle show.
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    Hi Awesome Genius!
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    Bump. Any more advice?
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    Awesome Genius get your backside here
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    He sounds like such a **** hahahaha that was a lucky escape


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    (Original post by Kholmes1)
    So basically I met this guy around a week ago. However after just one day we broke up because I called him a Jerk. The reason why I called him a jerk is because he calls himself Awesome Genius and he would not tell me his real name and he thinks hes superior to everyone else, (Which he is but still..). But now thinking about it I think im in love with him so what should I do?
    Nice try Awesome Genius but your awesomeness and genius does not compare with mine. I am a God among mortals :awesome: :awesome: :awesome:
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    Are you sleeping with my husband? :unimpressed: he has been acting suspicious lately and I just saw your username!
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    (Original post by Teslamegafan)
    Nice try Awesome Genius but your awesomeness and genius does not compare with mine. I am a God among mortals :awesome: :awesome: :awesome:
    My old man Lincoln's got something to say:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGi34vJnDnk
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    Ooo drama.
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    LoveFrom Wikipedia, the free encyclopediaThis article is about the general concept of "love". For other uses, see Love (disambiguation).This article contains special characters.Without proper rendering support, you may see question marks, boxes, or other symbols.Love is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection ("I love my mother") to pleasure ("I loved that meal"). It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment.[1] It can also be a virtue representing humankindness, compassion, and affection—"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".[2] It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals.[3]Non-Western traditions have also distinguished variants or symbioses of these states.[4] This diversity of uses and meanings combined with the complexity of the feelings involved makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states.Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.[5]Love may be understood as a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species.[6]
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    DefinitionsPart of a series onLovehttps://upload.wikimedia.org/wikiped...hollow.svg.pngTypes of love[show]Cultural views[show]Related[show]The word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Many other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts that in English are denoted as "love"; one example is the plurality of Greek words for "love"which includes agape and eros.[7] Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus doubly impede the establishment of a universal definition.[8]Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love (antonyms of "love"). Love as a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like) is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is sometimes contrasted withfriendship, although the word love is often applied to close friendships. (Further possible ambiguities come with usages "girlfriend", "boyfriend", "just good friends").
    https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikiped...racruz_059.jpgFraternal love (Prehispanic sculpture from 250–900 AD, of Huastecorigin). Museum of Anthropology inXalapa, Veracruz, Mexico
    Abstractly discussed love usually refers to an experience one person feels for another. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing (cf. vulnerability and care theory of love), including oneself (cf. narcissism). In addition to cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic love to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages, although the prior existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry.[9]The complex and abstract nature of love often reduces discourse of love to a thought-terminating cliché. Several common proverbsregard love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All You Need Is Love". St. Thomas Aquinas, following Aristotle, defines love as "to will the good of another."[10] Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative value.[citation needed] Philosopher Gottfried Leibniz said that love is "to be delighted by the happiness of another."[11] Meher Baba stated that in love there is a "feeling of unity" and an "active appreciation of the intrinsic worth of the object of love."[12] Biologist Jeremy Griffithdefines love as "unconditional selflessness".[13]Impersonal loveA person can be said to love an object, principle, or goal to which they are deeply committed and greatly value. For example, compassionate outreach and volunteer workers' "love" of their cause may sometimes be born not of interpersonal love but impersonal love, altruism, and strong spiritual or political convictions.[14] People can also "love" material objects, animals, or activities if they invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things. If sexual passion is also involved, then this feeling is calledparaphilia.[15]Interpersonal loveInterpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a much more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love that are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships.[14] Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love, such as erotomania.Throughout history, philosophy and religion have done the most speculation on the phenomenon of love. In the 20th century, the science ofpsychology has written a great deal on the subject. In recent years, the sciences of psychology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have added to the understanding of the nature and function of love.Biological basisMain article: Biological basis of loveBiological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian drive, much like hunger or thirst.[16] Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience of love into three partly overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust is the feeling of sexual desire; romantic attraction determines what partners mates find attractive and pursue, conserving time and energy by choosing; and attachment involves sharing a home, parental duties, mutual defense, and in humans involves feelings of safety and security.[17] Three distinct neural circuitries, including neurotransmitters, and three behavioral patterns, are associated with these three romantic styles.[17]Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone andestrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months. Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including the neurotransmitter hormones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, the same compounds released by amphetamine, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Research has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half to three years.[18]Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for long-term relationships. Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin to a greater degree than short-term relationships have.[18] Enzo Emanuele and coworkers reported the protein molecule known as the nerve growth factor (NGF) has high levels when people first fall in love, but these return to previous levels after one year.[19]Psychological basisFurther information: Human bondingPsychology depicts love as a cognitive and social phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg formulated a triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: intimacy, commitment, and passion. Intimacy is a form in which two people share confidences and various details of their personal lives, and is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment, on the other hand, is the expectation that the relationship is permanent. The last and most common form of love is sexual attraction and passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. All forms of love are viewed as varying combinations of these three components. Non-love does not include any of these components. Liking only includes intimacy. Infatuated love only includes passion. Empty love only includes commitment. Romantic love includes both intimacy and passion. Companionate love includes intimacy and commitment. Fatuous love includes passion and commitment. Lastly, consummate love includes all three.[20] American psychologist Zick Rubin sought to define love by psychometrics in the 1970s. His work states that three factors constitute love: attachment, caring, and intimacy.[21] [22]Following developments in electrical theories such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed, such as "opposites attract." Over the last century, research on the nature of human mating has generally found this not to be true when it comes to character and personality—people tend to like people similar to themselves. However, in a few unusual and specific domains, such as immune systems, it seems that humans prefer others who are unlike themselves (e.g., with an orthogonal immune system), since this will lead to a baby that has the best of both worlds.[23] In recent years, various human bondingtheories have been developed, described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and affinities. Some Western authorities disaggregate into two main components, the altruistic and the narcissistic. This view is represented in the works of Scott Peck, whose work in the field ofapplied psychology explored the definitions of love and evil. Peck maintains that love is a combination of the "concern for the spiritual growth of another," and simple narcissism.[24] In combination, love is an activity, not simply a feeling.Psychologist Erich Fromm maintained in his book The Art of Loving that love is not merely a feeling but is also actions, and that in fact, the "feeling" of love is superficial in comparison to one's commitment to love via a series of loving actions over time.[14] In this sense, Fromm held that love is ultimately not a feeling at all, but rather is a commitment to, and adherence to, loving actions towards another, oneself, or many others, over a sustained duration.[14] Fromm also described love as a conscious choice that in its early stages might originate as an involuntary feeling, but which then later no longer depends on those feelings, but rather depends only on conscious commitment.[14]Evolutionary basisEvolutionary psychology has attempted to provide various reasons for love as a survival tool. Humans are dependent on parental help for a large portion of their lifespans compared to other mammals. Love has therefore been seen as a mechanism to promote parental support of children for this extended time period. Another factor may be thatsexually transmitted diseases can cause, among other effects, permanently reduced fertility, injury to the fetus, and increase complications during childbirth. This would favor monogamous relationships over polygamy.[25]Comparison of scientific modelsBiological models of love tend to see it as a mammalian drive, similar to hunger or thirst.[16] Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon. Certainly love is influenced by hormones (such as oxytocin), neurotrophins (such as NGF), and pheromones, and how people think and behave in love is influenced by their conceptions of love. The conventional view in biology is that there are two major drives in love: sexual attraction and attachment. Attachment between adults is presumed to work on the same principles that lead an infant to become attached to its mother. The traditional psychological view sees love as being a combination of companionate love and passionate love. Passionate love is intense longing, and is often accompanied by physiological arousal (shortness of breath, rapid heart rate); companionate love is affection and a feeling of intimacy not accompanied by physiological arousal.Cultural viewsAncient GreekSee also: Greek words for loveGreek distinguishes several different senses in which the word "love" is used. Ancient Greeks identified four forms of love: kinship or familiarity (in Greek, storge), friendship(philia), sexual and/or romantic desire (eros), and self-emptying or divine love (agape).[26][27] Modern authors have distinguished further varieties of romantic love.[28] However, with Greek (as with many other languages), it has been historically difficult to separate the meanings of these words totally. At the same time, the Ancient Greek text of the Biblehas examples of the verb agapo having the same meaning as phileo.Agape (ἀγάπη agápē) means love in modern-day Greek. The term s'agapo means I love you in Greek. The word agapo is the verb I love. It generally refers to a "pure," ideal type of love, rather than the physical attraction suggested by eros. However, there are some examples of agape used to mean the same as eros. It has also been translated as "love of the soul."[29]Eros (ἔρως érōs) (from the Greek deity Eros) is passionate love, with sensual desire and longing. The Greek word erota means in love. Plato refined his own definition. Although eros is initially felt for a person, with contemplation it becomes an appreciation of the beauty within that person, or even becomes appreciation of beauty itself. Eros helps the soul recall knowledge of beauty and contributes to an understanding of spiritual truth. Lovers and philosophers are all inspired to seek truth by eros. Some translations list it as "love of the body."[29]Philia (φιλία philía), a dispassionate virtuous love, was a concept addressed and developed by Aristotle.[citation needed] It includes loyalty to friends, family, and community, and requires virtue, equality, and familiarity. Philia is motivated by practical reasons; one or both of the parties benefit from the relationship. It can also mean "love of the mind."Storge (στοργή storgē) is natural affection, like that felt by parents for offspring.Xenia (ξενία xenía), hospitality, was an extremely important practice in Ancient Greece. It was an almost ritualized friendship formed between a host and his guest, who could previously have been strangers. The host fed and provided quarters for the guest, who was expected to repay only with gratitude. The importance of this can be seen throughoutGreek mythology—in particular, Homer's Iliad and Odyssey
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    (Original post by FaisalNaeem03)
    My old man Lincoln's got something to say:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGi34vJnDnk
    :ditto: https://youtu.be/_PNGq7tDWMQ
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    Muuuuuvvveee: https://vine.co/v/eBTthxneTLA
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    Lemons, what's with the wall of copy and pasting? ^^ OT: Interesting.
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    Awesome Genius explain.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Are you sleeping with my husband? :unimpressed: he has been acting suspicious lately and I just saw your username!
    Does your husband know about MrsSheldonCooper :hmmm:?
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    *shamelessly grabs popcorn
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    (Original post by serah.exe)
    I'm in love with the CoCo.
    I got it for the Low Low
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    (Original post by FaisalNaeem03)
    Muuuuuvvveee: https://vine.co/v/eBTthxneTLA
    Sound's not working, nice try though :rofl:
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    (Original post by Kadak)
    Does your husband know about MrsSheldonCooper :hmmm:?
    Guilty

    (Original post by MrsSheldonCooper)
    *shamelessly grabs popcorn
 
 
 
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