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    In public or in a bar, if you see a girl you like, do you wait for her to give you signs, or you just go up to her no matter what. What do you say when you do?
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    Easier and potentially less embarrassing in a club, look for cues then approach. I reckon it's a numbers game in a club, talk to as many girls as you can, something will come off.
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    I don't.
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    Catch their eye first, always. Give them a smile - not a creepy smile or a big cheesy grin, just a mild and pleasant close-mouthed smile. If they're giving off positive body language, then go up and chat to them. If they're in a group then it's best to address them as a group, ask how they're all doing (not as in individually, obviously) and if they're having a good night. Then gradually pay more and more attention to the girl you had your eye on.

    Don't go in with a script, you'll just look awkward.
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    Naked with cawk in hand.
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    Elbow to elbow contact. Look in her eyes and say- "When you buying me a drink then love?" followed by a wink.
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    Confidence I suppose. And if you have a job, that's a plus too.
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    Tap-dance ur way into her heart. Don't forget dem shoes.
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    (Original post by Tom78)
    look for cues then approach. f.
    What cues?

    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Catch their eye first, always. Give them a smile - not a creepy smile or a big cheesy grin, just a mild and pleasant close-mouthed smile. If they're giving off positive body language, then go up and chat to them.
    What positive body language?
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    By walking.... using my legs.
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    (Original post by Bubzeh)
    Elbow to elbow contact. Look in her eyes and say- "When you buying me a drink then love?" followed by a wink.
    Lol if someone did that to me I'd be put off.

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    Ask about the decor inside her home and talk about scatter cushions - remember to be flamboyant about it.
    It'll help to break down the barriers in no time.
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    I don't. 😂
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    (Original post by Xavier10)
    What positive body language?
    You should know what positive body language is mate, it's common sense :lol: If you smile at someone and they look disgusted and start turning away from you, that's not good body language. If she smiles back, chances are she would be okay with being approached by you.
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    Gimme your bb pin, no long ting.

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    Give her written proof of your bank balance, If your rich anyway, if your poor you might as cut your balls of.
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    You simply be like
    "I'm new in town - could you give me directions to your apartment?"
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    Most effective technique here is by being good looking.
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    That would be funny if it wasn't also true.
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    From behind, with chloroform and a rag :bigsmile:
 
 
 
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