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    Say for example you met this girl out and about. Could be anywhere, street, mall, etc. You approach, conversate and drop game. Get her number.

    Im guessing most of ya'll would wait a couple days before hitting her up. I dont many of yall would just straight up say "Hey its me" or something along the lines. So what do you guys usually say to get her attention?

    I heard that its bad or negative to text a girl after you met her, purely based on the fact that it may be difficult to reciprocate the same energy and vibe you had the first time you approached her. As girls are emotional creatures, she may not be entertained and may lose interest if you arent gauging her attention as you did the first time. I heard texting is best to arrange plans, but to talk and build rapport and sexual tension, it's not.

    Thought and any advice?

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    I'm way too impatient to wait for days to text a person I like so I'd probably text them and say hi
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    I would text:

    I spy with my lil eye...

    Gives it that personal touch.
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    1. If you want to initiate a conversation: Hey
    2. If you plan on doing 1., but misstype: Heyy
    3. If you want to have sex: Heyyy
    4. If you're a rapist: Heyyyy
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    Honestly i have no time for this ...
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    "what dat mouth do?"
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    "what dat mouth do?"
    Haha

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    Say for example you met this girl out and about. Could be anywhere, street, mall, etc. You approach, conversate and drop game. Get her number.

    Im guessing most of ya'll would wait a couple days before hitting her up. I dont many of yall would just straight up say "Hey its me" or something along the lines. So what do you guys usually say to get her attention?

    I heard that its bad or negative to text a girl after you met her, purely based on the fact that it may be difficult to reciprocate the same energy and vibe you had the first time you approached her. As girls are emotional creatures, she may not be entertained and may lose interest if you arent gauging her attention as you did the first time. I heard texting is best to arrange plans, but to talk and build rapport and sexual tension, it's not.

    Thought and any advice?

    Thanks
    The only time I went out, got hammered, and wound up getting a girl's phone number, I texted her the following day to make ask if she'd got home alright. We were both pretty wasted, and she said she didn't remember getting home after.

    It didn't go anywhere other than us becoming good friends, though. But again, that might have been because I was very innocent and shy back them - she's mentioned that since.
 
 
 
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