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    Hi,

    Basically I haven`t been very confident around girls at all and I have just been rejected by a girl I have got to know but I am apparently a "nice lad" .So I am confused as to why I struggle with women but somehow being a nice lad doesn't cut the cake so to speak but at the same time most women/girls want that, and how to improve confidence as I am no Chaning Tatum so looks is out of my control. I have been told by many people that I am a nice confident lad and former bosses have said so and so it really baffles me why this always happens. :/

    Any advice or comments appreciated and Im 19 yr old male.
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    You need to wait for the right girl. You're still young so you might not yet have met a girl that's right for you but be patient and it'll work out eventually. Maybe when you're older girls will appreciate you more if you're a nice guy and that will work out. Anyway being nice can never have any downsides


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    (Original post by Foreverton)
    You need to wait for the right girl. You're still young so you might not yet have met a girl that's right for you but be patient and it'll work out eventually. Maybe when you're older girls will appreciate you more if you're a nice guy and that will work out. Anyway being nice can never have any downsides


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    Hi i suppose your right and being nice is always the right thing to do. It's just destroying on the inside to know I'm not good enough. It's just depressing because I know I'm 19 but it kinda just destroys any confidence I have. I know it sounds stupid and I apologise for being daft but thank you for your kind reply
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    How can you bump a thread after only one hour?

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    Just be you, literally sounds like awful advice but you'll find someone who accepts you even with your confidence, some people find it nice and would rather have someone who is kind of shy/low ish confidence than some arrogant guy all up in their face.
 
 
 
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