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    so on halloween i met this guy, he was really sweet and nice and we ended up kissing, usually at parties i'm used to never really speaking to them again, but this guy now keeps messaging me, problem is i really am not attracted to him and he really isn't my type, but i feel awful because he was such a nice guy, he also goes to my college so it might be difficult to ignore him completely, what do i do?!?!?!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so on halloween i met this guy, he was really sweet and nice and we ended up kissing, usually at parties i'm used to never really speaking to them again, but this guy now keeps messaging me, problem is i really am not attracted to him and he really isn't my type, but i feel awful because he was such a nice guy, he also goes to my college so it might be difficult to ignore him completely, what do i do?!?!?!
    Tell him it was a quick ting you get me.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so on halloween i met this guy, he was really sweet and nice and we ended up kissing, usually at parties i'm used to never really speaking to them again, but this guy now keeps messaging me, problem is i really am not attracted to him and he really isn't my type, but i feel awful because he was such a nice guy, he also goes to my college so it might be difficult to ignore him completely, what do i do?!?!?!
    You'll just have to be honest and tell him you don't like him in that way.
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    You'll just have to be honest and tell him you don't like him in that way.
    but like how do i do that?
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    but like how do i do that?
    You say look you are nice but I don't want to be anymore than friends.
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    Tell him it's not what you're looking for, wrong timing, focusing on other aspects an stuff, but since he goes to your college it's probably going to be awkward if he doesn't take it well and keeps persisting. Be firm but fair, stuff like this happens every day, plus you'll probably have to turn a fair few people down along the line.... may as well get used to it. It's not so much what you say at this point, just don't lead him on. He'll be fine, move on, you can move on, everyones good. Avoid cliches, don't say "its not you its me" and all that stuff...
 
 
 
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