bf advice

I got with my bf about 3/4 weeks ago and i waited forever for him to ask me out. He knew how much i liked him but he wanted to know if he was making the right decision etc.

I do really wana make this work but there is one big problem. He lives in killburn north london and i live in south london. Hes comes down every 2weeks to stay at his dads for the weekend, i do see him at this time but he has NEVER asked me to go up and see him. If he asked me i wouldnt of course go up but he hasnt, when i asks him to come down he says he will but never does.

Our relationship is exactly the same as it was before we got together, we talk on the phone everyday when we wake up, during the day n before we go to bed. Nothing has really changed...i waited almost 2 months just to be friends which is what it feels like.

Im not sure how to approach this subject with him as he can be stubbon and say hes got college etc n cant come down. I feel just to say lets be friends cos its so much easier, as most of you might know i am a bit messed up in the head and i dont think he will be able to 'handle' me always being in bad moods, my depression, things at home etc.

I know this isnt a long distance relationship but it feels like it! anyone got any advice?