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    Hi
    I'm 18 and have never had a real relationship......
    I have been intimate with girls but I never really had a girlfriend. Normally when asking for advice about this situation I get responses like "just be yourself" or "just talk to a girl" etc. most of the advice is generic crap and doesn't help at all......... also I can talk to girls but I don't like talking to strangers and if I were my usual self around girls I'm pretty sure they'd die of boredom.

    so if anyone could tell me there experience with getting into a relationship with their boy/girlfriend it'd help.
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    My boyfriend didn't have his first relationship until he was 20. Just relax and eventually you'll find a girl who likes you as your usual self - you can't pretend to be someone you aren't forever, and even if you do it will just make you unhappy. Just go about your life and it will happen when you aren't expecting it
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    My boyfriend didn't have his first relationship until he was 20. Just relax and eventually you'll find a girl who likes you as your usual self - you can't pretend to be someone you aren't forever, and even if you do it will just make you unhappy. Just go about your life and it will happen when you aren't expecting it
    how did you meet your boyfriend?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    **** an escort
    well I'd rather not get aids.......
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    (Original post by AnimeGuy)
    how did you meet your boyfriend?
    We worked together and he was very shy, so I used to invite him out with us. One day we went to a lake after work, and he started to really open up to me, and suddenly we were kissing. Been together ever since
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    (Original post by AnimeGuy)
    well I'd rather not get aids.......
    You'll be infected with aids anyways. Most girlfriends have had tons of boyfriends anyway at least 10. Tell me which gf is a virgin nowadays?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You'll be infected with aids anyways. Most girlfriends have had tons of boyfriends anyway at least 10. Tell me which gf is a virgin nowadays?
    What a ridiculous comment.
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    We worked together and he was very shy, so I used to invite him out with us. One day we went to a lake after work, and he started to really open up to me, and suddenly we were kissing. Been together ever since
    This makes me feel kinda jealous...
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    1. Be attractive*.

    *Ignore if rich.
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    You just need to be confident! Don't be too cliche and generic! Laughter being funny is your best friend lol and be yourself! If someone doesn't like you for who you are then so what lol you can't be everyone's cup of tea, so just play to your strengths, be confident, funny and most of all respect women good luck!! Don't be shy like me cause you'll regret it lool
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    (Original post by Fry_Cook_of_Doom)
    This makes me feel kinda jealous...
    How come?
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    How come?
    I just wish I wasn't single. Lol.
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    We worked together and he was very shy, so I used to invite him out with us. One day we went to a lake after work, and he started to really open up to me, and suddenly we were kissing. Been together ever since
    Awwww that so sweet and amazing!! Hope you're going well and may it last nicest thing I've read on here haha
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    (Original post by Fry_Cook_of_Doom)
    I just wish I wasn't single. Lol.
    You'll find someone eventually, you just need to be yourself and try not to think about it too much. For me, it happened when I least expected it
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    (Original post by Monty21)
    Awwww that so sweet and amazing!! Hope you're going well and may it last nicest thing I've read on here haha
    Thanks very much! I love him to bits, and I've never been happier
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    (Original post by Monty21)
    You just need to be confident! Don't be too cliche and generic! Laughter being funny is your best friend lol and be yourself! If someone doesn't like you for who you are then so what lol you can't be everyone's cup of tea, so just play to your strengths, be confident, funny and most of all respect women good luck!! Don't be shy like me cause you'll regret it lool
    being yourself is a good idea but if you randomly approach a guy let alone a girl it'll be super awkward, and most of the time people are always on their phones and when you speak to them your just being a burden.

    The only way to make friends with people is only if your in the same class or similar situation where you'll be somewhat forced to talk to them.
 
 
 
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