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    I can't help feel like a girl wouldn't see me as a potential guy she would date/ fall in love with.I'm a quiet guy, I lack a bit of confidence. I'm quite sensitive also, always looking out for people, helpful and caring. I smile quite a lot, and am told im polite, always saying thankyou etc. I hold doors open for people, and am courteous. I'm a bit of a worrier and sometimes get a bit panicky, would this be seen as weak? I like everything to be done correctly, and properly. I can be fun, but only at times when I think I can 'let myself go' Othertimes I can be quite serious and just want to get the job done. I can also have days where I'm moody. I like to keep myself to myself sometimes and sometimes not sure what to say in conversation, particulary with a girl I like. I'm told im good looking and have a great smile.do these traits seem a turn off to you? And if yes, in what way should I change.
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    Opinions on personality, like looks, are rather subjective. Don't bother changing your personality just for the sake of getting girls, it'd be a bit counter-productive.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't help feel like a girl wouldn't see me as a potential guy she would date/ fall in love with.I'm a quiet guy, I lack a bit of confidence. I'm quite sensitive also, always looking out for people, helpful and caring. I smile quite a lot, and am told im polite, always saying thankyou etc. I hold doors open for people, and am courteous. I'm a bit of a worrier and sometimes get a bit panicky, would this be seen as weak? I like everything to be done correctly, and properly. I can be fun, but only at times when I think I can 'let myself go' Othertimes I can be quite serious and just want to get the job done. I can also have days where I'm moody. I like to keep myself to myself sometimes and sometimes not sure what to say in conversation, particulary with a girl I like. I'm told im good looking and have a great smile.do these traits seem a turn off to you? And if yes, in what way should I change.
    Don't change for the world! Be you because being you is the best. I think that we'd be really good friends as we have a lot of the same traits! Just like my type of guy . I'm also quite moody at times, but today I was slightly more lively and was told by two guys that they prefer me when I'm slightly more bubbly.

    Wow - I didn't realise that I'd find someone with similar traits!!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't help feel like a girl wouldn't see me as a potential guy she would date/ fall in love with.I'm a quiet guy, I lack a bit of confidence. I'm quite sensitive also, always looking out for people, helpful and caring. I smile quite a lot, and am told im polite, always saying thankyou etc. I hold doors open for people, and am courteous. I'm a bit of a worrier and sometimes get a bit panicky, would this be seen as weak? I like everything to be done correctly, and properly. I can be fun, but only at times when I think I can 'let myself go' Othertimes I can be quite serious and just want to get the job done. I can also have days where I'm moody. I like to keep myself to myself sometimes and sometimes not sure what to say in conversation, particulary with a girl I like. I'm told im good looking and have a great smile.do these traits seem a turn off to you? And if yes, in what way should I change.
    You just described the majority of TSR people.
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    Do not change for anyone, You are who you are! To be honest everything you said apart from attractiveness, sounds exactly like me haha!
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    U get the golden seal of approval from meh :yy:
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    U get the golden seal of approval from meh :yy:
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    I don't see anything wrong with you, don't change yourself for anyone.

    If you really are concerned, put yourself out there more. I know quite a few people in their 20+ who wish they did ..
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    You sound nice to me.
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    nothing wrong with you, keep doing what you're doing and someone will notice lol
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    How often are you moody tho
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    You sound like me :lol:
    But probably nicer! Don't worry about it!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't help feel like a girl wouldn't see me as a potential guy she would date/ fall in love with.I'm a quiet guy, I lack a bit of confidence. I'm quite sensitive also, always looking out for people, helpful and caring. I smile quite a lot, and am told im polite, always saying thankyou etc. I hold doors open for people, and am courteous. I'm a bit of a worrier and sometimes get a bit panicky, would this be seen as weak? I like everything to be done correctly, and properly. I can be fun, but only at times when I think I can 'let myself go' Othertimes I can be quite serious and just want to get the job done. I can also have days where I'm moody. I like to keep myself to myself sometimes and sometimes not sure what to say in conversation, particulary with a girl I like. I'm told im good looking and have a great smile.do these traits seem a turn off to you? And if yes, in what way should I change.
    You sound like a nice guy but you should learn how to be more confident. Women LOVE confident men, being really quiet can restrict yourself from being out there and meeting fantastic people.
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    The whole lack of confidence is your problem.
    It's weird.. Girls can smell confidence like dogs smell fear..
 
 
 
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