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Advice on telling the ex watch

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    Hi all

    Please help me, I have 2 similar issues

    I need some advice on how to break it to one of your best friends who is also an important ex that you're getting married. If you act like its s big deal, is that really condescending? Almost like you think they'll care cos you're so great? But also, if you tell them really casually without a big conversation does that make you seem disrespectful and heartless? HELP

    Secondly, my partner has to tell his ex because they have children together. Can anyone advise? How should he do this and should I be involved in any of it? Is t best to tell her before the kids? I know the kids will be so happy but I don't want to upset anyone. HELP

    Thankyou all. Also please feel free to be super blunt if you think I'm being a ********.

    With regards to your best friend, the fact that he's your ex isn't really important. The important thing is that he's your friend, so tell him as you'd tell any other friend, and he should be happy for you.

    With regards to his ex, it's probably better that he tells her before the kids find out. Imagine if they come home and tell her and she finds out like that. It's up to you and him as to whether or not you're involved; if you get on well with her then you could potentially sit down with her together and tell her, but if not it might be better for him to do it on his own
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