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    I'm not quite entirely sure why, but it appears to be a largely male act. The male "****s" (4-letter f word) the female. The male screws the female. It is usually spoken as a verb that is done by the male upon the female. Physically, the male is using the female's genitals for his own pleasure - using his own force. It is hard for a female to rape a male (though it does happen), precisely because it is largely a male act of dominance over a female. For perhaps this reason, sex is seen as more degrading for the woman than for the man?

    Does anyone else get that impression?

    I appreciate that I have not properly developed an argument here; just a discussion point.
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    Hmm not sure, I hear things like 'she's ****ing him' and it sounds just the same.
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    I guess the way you say it is strongly influenced by which person you know in the relationship

    If you knew the girl, you'd be like "she's going to f him tonight isn't she?" rather than referring to the guy

    But if you didn't know either personally, then it's usually said like the man is performing the sexual act upon her rather than the other way around.

    idek if what I said makes any sense. :indiff:
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    Not really because women gain emotionally from sex just as men do. The endorphin release etc...

    I get what you're saying, it's his rod going into her but that doesn't mean it's just men getting pleasure. Women can often go on top so it's not one way traffic, it's just different types of genitals doing different things. If women weren't the way they are down there, the male rod would be useless and if males were the same as females (down there), females wouldn't get anywhere.

    Hard to speak without being graphic lol
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    She is ****ed by the man. (Happy now? the blame is being placed on the woman, via passive voice.)
    She ****s (does happen, as enaayrah & hatless cat said.)

    And this vocab/verb isn't even typical of all echelons of society; far more typical of certain groups to say this.

    They had sex, she had sex w/ him, he had sex with her
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    Well if we took your view to a practical purpose nobody would ever have sex ever again, human race would die out save for an artificial inseminated generation of unloved children, and all that would be left would be a hollow shell of what was once humanity.

    But if you feel like we should never have sex again then that's your opinion and you're entitled to it. Just don't expect the rest of us to follow suite.
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    A girl can take charge and go on top, using the man's genitalia as a sex toy. I also hear the phrase "she ****ed him" fairly often.
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    Hardly. It's a matter of perspective. Porn has introduced the idea that sex needs to be 'rough' or an act of submission on one's behalf. But each individual has different sexual desires and pleasures. It's incorrect to assume that men do not like being dominated or being with a partner who is dominant towards them.
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    I feel sorry for anyone who seriously thinks that the only way to have sex is by shoving a **** in an orifice.
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    (Original post by Melancholy)
    I'm not quite entirely sure why, but it appears to be a largely male act. The male "****s" (4-letter f word) the female. The male screws the female. It is usually spoken as a verb that is done by the male upon the female. Physically, the male is using the female's genitals for his own pleasure - using his own force. It is hard for a female to rape a male (though it does happen), precisely because it is largely a male act of dominance over a female. For perhaps this reason, sex is seen as more degrading for the woman than for the man?

    Does anyone else get that impression?

    I appreciate that I have not properly developed an argument here; just a discussion point.
    But lots of women also enjoy sexual inter course. And of course there are multiple ways in which women can sexual dominate men (trust me I know) this view to me largely stems from archaic views that women don't really enjoy sex.



    Then you ignore same sex relationships
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    I get the impression that, if done properly, sex is very enjoyable for all involved and that's all there is to it.
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    Did he shave a badger and then Pritt Stick the shavings to his head? :lolwut:
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    This is almost as funny as the radical feminists who think all PiV is rape

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    Maybe we should all have gay sex instead, just to be politically correct of course.
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    I'm pretty sure that quote is older than the guy in the picture.
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    Careful there, Catherine MacKinnon. Don't want to cut yourself with all those edges.
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    (Original post by drunk punx)
    did he shave a badger and then pritt stick the shavings to his head? :lolwut:
    bahahahahahahaha.
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    (Original post by Drunk Punx)
    Did he shave a badger and then Pritt Stick the shavings to his head? :lolwut:
    Ouch.
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    Ive cut my wang off so women don't feel oppressed. Are you satisfied?
 
 
 
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