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    I'm not talking physical attraction here, but if you start to become turned on by a woman's mind, and really fascinated by her depth, it will cost you, that is my premise. Now, let us say you(if you've experienced it) or the guy in question has plenty to mentally stimulate her with also, you are not one dimensional or thick. The point I'm making is that if you admit how interesting you find her, even if it starts as flirting, she will not use this info with empathy, there may be flriitng, but she won't let it go to eroticism, or the next stage, she will tease you and then ignore ytou, the moment she's knows that you find her interesting on more than a physical level(online), because that sustains someone and keeps them fascinated. In my opinion, even if a guy is attractive and interesting, and even if he turns her on a bit, or is breifly interesting, she will have so many options as a modern woman that she will inevitably love the thrill of keeping you trying and then just ignoring you.

    I just want to ask women for their honest views, if you know a guy finds you really interesting, your mind, your depths, do you get a kick out of stringing hm along or ignoring him?
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    Some people like stringing guys along, most don't. I would never string anyone along, because it's unnecessarily cruel. If she's doing that to you, find someone better
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    Some people like stringing guys along, most don't. I would never string anyone along, because it's unnecessarily cruel. If she's doing that to you, find someone better
    I can get it if there is no connection or nothing is felt. But-
    It's when you actually have things in common, I mean when there is genuine mental and maybe physical attraction, that's when it's worse because if there is some genuine sexual tension, and intellectual stimulation, it's like she's being dishonest, and then just suddenly and clinically cuts all warmth or flirting off, it just feels so disingenuous and coid and clinical. I mean, I'm not a naive guy expecting marriage and babies, but what about a stimulating, erotic relationship? Why are some people so cruel and closed, what would they lose by it, it's hardly like I am talking about someone attached, and they would gain a bit of experience and passion from it, sex and fun..But some women just always go cold, get you to the point of wanting it, and then have to try and cut your balls off by doing that.
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    I just mean they deny what could be mutual beneficial and some experience, in favour of total coldness. I don't think I'm gods gift but i'm not horrible, unnattractive or thick or slimy. And I'm not pitching 'out of my league' ...just think sometimes they invent reasons to go calculated and punish you. End product is always no interaction and experience that could broaden both people's horizons. I'm alright when I'm not expecting it, but whenever I get into one of these interactions(and btw family a bit disturbed and don't understand why I don't have relationships), I already am half prepared for the ****ty feeling of knowing I've been prickteased and it will go cold.
 
 
 
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