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    Obviously guys like girls, but I was genuinely interested as to girls feelings towards lads

    I don't want to be a cocky lad who assumes he's Gods gift to women, I don't like to make any approach because why would they be interested in me

    Some of my male friends are very pushy and manipulative in bedding girls which is not something I ever consider resorting to, I don't really feel a need but also as its especially immoral, imo

    But since I'd never do this I wonder if I'd ever meet a girl who likes me, I'm not particularly bothered about sleeping with girls btw,
    It also makes me wonder why the lads have to be that pushy

    Do girls get with guys out of being flattered by our attention or manipulation or out of genuine attraction? I'd never want to be with someone who wasn't happy with me, but I must admit I feel pretty disgusting and unwanted as a male
    Also don't girls find girls attractive since they're a lot nicer looking?
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    The more pushy guys are more successful literallly EVERYWHERE I've seen. Girls don't really become interested in you until you start chatting to them as opposed to guys.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Obviously guys like girls, but I was genuinely interested as to girls feelings towards lads

    I don't want to be a cocky lad who assumes he's Gods gift to women, I don't like to make any approach because why would they be interested in me

    Some of my male friends are very pushy and manipulative in bedding girls which is not something I ever consider resorting to, I don't really feel a need but also as its especially immoral, imo

    But since I'd never do this I wonder if I'd ever meet a girl who likes me, I'm not particularly bothered about sleeping with girls btw,
    It also makes me wonder why the lads have to be that pushy

    Do girls get with guys out of being flattered by our attention or manipulation or out of genuine attraction? I'd never want to be with someone who wasn't happy with me, but I must admit I feel pretty disgusting and unwanted as a male
    Also don't girls find girls attractive since they're a lot nicer looking?

    What do you mean by pushy and manipulative. I would say your question is an interesting one. A lot of the time the guy has to do the chasing but in the same way the girl will just not go along with it if she is not interested.
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    I hate pushy lads but I love confident men, by confident I mean easy to talk and have a laugh with not a man who tries to sleep with a girl any chance they get! So you are the type of lad i'd find attractive, not all about sex
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    So would girls say they find lads naturally attractive, or only after the lad shows interest?
    A lot of qualities women say they look for in men can be found in women, and considering they're nicer looking, why don't they like other women?

    I don't see why women would want us lads
 
 
 
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