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Hey,
So I came across this post this morning; http://i100.independent.co.uk/articl...ys--WkDRFZmCOg and it got me thinking. Me and my now ex-girlfriend started talking about our previous sexual experiences one night after getting drunk on date night. She admitted that she'd had two sexual encounters with another female, this lead to me asking her whether she thought she might be bisexual, which she denied but never did she say she regretted her actions or that it was a mistake or that she was just experimenting. In fact she made it quite clear that she enjoyed them! (It might be worth knowing that both times she had a sexual encounter with another female it was in between bad breakups with a male.)
It doesn't end here, I also noticed that whenever we watched porn together (not regularly but every now and then) she'd tend to choose the pornos that included girl on girl action like threesomes, lesbian, gangbang etc. I actually made a joke out of it once and she just said that she thought I liked watching girl on girl. (Which I do, but I had never told her that.)
What do you think? Could all girls be bi-sexual? Does the article have some grounds? And what do you think about my ex? Could she have been bi?
So I came across this post this morning; http://i100.independent.co.uk/articl...ys--WkDRFZmCOg and it got me thinking. Me and my now ex-girlfriend started talking about our previous sexual experiences one night after getting drunk on date night. She admitted that she'd had two sexual encounters with another female, this lead to me asking her whether she thought she might be bisexual, which she denied but never did she say she regretted her actions or that it was a mistake or that she was just experimenting. In fact she made it quite clear that she enjoyed them! (It might be worth knowing that both times she had a sexual encounter with another female it was in between bad breakups with a male.)
It doesn't end here, I also noticed that whenever we watched porn together (not regularly but every now and then) she'd tend to choose the pornos that included girl on girl action like threesomes, lesbian, gangbang etc. I actually made a joke out of it once and she just said that she thought I liked watching girl on girl. (Which I do, but I had never told her that.)
What do you think? Could all girls be bi-sexual? Does the article have some grounds? And what do you think about my ex? Could she have been bi?
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Well women often prefer lesbian porn purely because it's more sensual, straight porn is far less so. The study found that all women involved in the study, including those who identified as straight, were aroused by other women. But one could argue that sexuality is a combination of romantic and physical attraction.
Ultimately I'd prefer to let people self-identify, rather than let others decide which labels are appropriate for them. I'm bisexual by the way.
Ultimately I'd prefer to let people self-identify, rather than let others decide which labels are appropriate for them. I'm bisexual by the way.
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It would be quite sexy if they were. To be honest I don't think so, but there are probably some that hold all their fantasies in.
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I can find lesbian porn quite good to watch, yes. Does that make me bisexual? No. I've never been physically attracted to a girl in real life. Same as I've watched anal but never had any desire to do it.
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(Original post by *Incognito)
Hey,
So I came across this post this morning; http://i100.independent.co.uk/articl...ys--WkDRFZmCOg and it got me thinking. Me and my now ex-girlfriend started talking about our previous sexual experiences one night after getting drunk on date night. She admitted that she'd had two sexual encounters with another female, this lead to me asking her whether she thought she might be bisexual, which she denied but never did she say she regretted her actions or that it was a mistake or that she was just experimenting. In fact she made it quite clear that she enjoyed them! (It might be worth knowing that both times she had a sexual encounter with another female it was in between bad breakups with a male.)
It doesn't end here, I also noticed that whenever we watched porn together (not regularly but every now and then) she'd tend to choose the pornos that included girl on girl action like threesomes, lesbian, gangbang etc. I actually made a joke out of it once and she just said that she thought I liked watching girl on girl. (Which I do, but I had never told her that.)
What do you think? Could all girls be bi-sexual? Does the article have some grounds? And what do you think about my ex? Could she have been bi?
Hey,
So I came across this post this morning; http://i100.independent.co.uk/articl...ys--WkDRFZmCOg and it got me thinking. Me and my now ex-girlfriend started talking about our previous sexual experiences one night after getting drunk on date night. She admitted that she'd had two sexual encounters with another female, this lead to me asking her whether she thought she might be bisexual, which she denied but never did she say she regretted her actions or that it was a mistake or that she was just experimenting. In fact she made it quite clear that she enjoyed them! (It might be worth knowing that both times she had a sexual encounter with another female it was in between bad breakups with a male.)
It doesn't end here, I also noticed that whenever we watched porn together (not regularly but every now and then) she'd tend to choose the pornos that included girl on girl action like threesomes, lesbian, gangbang etc. I actually made a joke out of it once and she just said that she thought I liked watching girl on girl. (Which I do, but I had never told her that.)
What do you think? Could all girls be bi-sexual? Does the article have some grounds? And what do you think about my ex? Could she have been bi?
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I thought that the study suggested that women were almost never straight, rather than exclusively bi or lesbian.
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Men clearly do not have this. I mean if loads of men were out at sea together nothing would happen...
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(Original post by *Incognito)
Hey,
So I came across this post this morning; http://i100.independent.co.uk/articl...ys--WkDRFZmCOg and it got me thinking. Me and my now ex-girlfriend started talking about our previous sexual experiences one night after getting drunk on date night. She admitted that she'd had two sexual encounters with another female, this lead to me asking her whether she thought she might be bisexual, which she denied but never did she say she regretted her actions or that it was a mistake or that she was just experimenting. In fact she made it quite clear that she enjoyed them! (It might be worth knowing that both times she had a sexual encounter with another female it was in between bad breakups with a male.)
It doesn't end here, I also noticed that whenever we watched porn together (not regularly but every now and then) she'd tend to choose the pornos that included girl on girl action like threesomes, lesbian, gangbang etc. I actually made a joke out of it once and she just said that she thought I liked watching girl on girl. (Which I do, but I had never told her that.)
What do you think? Could all girls be bi-sexual? Does the article have some grounds? And what do you think about my ex? Could she have been bi?
Hey,
So I came across this post this morning; http://i100.independent.co.uk/articl...ys--WkDRFZmCOg and it got me thinking. Me and my now ex-girlfriend started talking about our previous sexual experiences one night after getting drunk on date night. She admitted that she'd had two sexual encounters with another female, this lead to me asking her whether she thought she might be bisexual, which she denied but never did she say she regretted her actions or that it was a mistake or that she was just experimenting. In fact she made it quite clear that she enjoyed them! (It might be worth knowing that both times she had a sexual encounter with another female it was in between bad breakups with a male.)
It doesn't end here, I also noticed that whenever we watched porn together (not regularly but every now and then) she'd tend to choose the pornos that included girl on girl action like threesomes, lesbian, gangbang etc. I actually made a joke out of it once and she just said that she thought I liked watching girl on girl. (Which I do, but I had never told her that.)
What do you think? Could all girls be bi-sexual? Does the article have some grounds? And what do you think about my ex? Could she have been bi?
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Personal anecdotes don't count as evidence in science.
The study seems to be assuming that watching gay porn means your gay or lesbians,which isn't true.
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No they're not. But there does seem to be a greater proportion of girls up for a drunken snog with a mate than would be the case for guys. And who can blame them.
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(Original post by there's too much love;[url="tel:60458151")
60458151[/url]]Men clearly do not have this. I mean if loads of men were out at sea together nothing would happen...
60458151[/url]]Men clearly do not have this. I mean if loads of men were out at sea together nothing would happen...
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(Original post by Zarek)
Mind you, I think a few any port in a storm happen in a male prison.
Mind you, I think a few any port in a storm happen in a male prison.
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(Original post by there's too much love)
Men clearly do not have this. I mean if loads of men were out at sea together nothing would happen...
Men clearly do not have this. I mean if loads of men were out at sea together nothing would happen...
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Difficult to analyse when the paper doesn't appear to have been published in full yet - only an abstract: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26501187
However, no. Everyone exists on a scale and precious few will be 100% straight (or 100% lesbian for that matter), but that isn't quite the same as being bisexual (in terms of how it's commonly perceived at any rate). Beyond that, I'd be interested to see how they actually measured the arousal and how they've accounted for any non-sexual reaction to the stimuli - all that article talks about is pupil dilation, which doesn't necessarily denote sexual arousal.
However, no. Everyone exists on a scale and precious few will be 100% straight (or 100% lesbian for that matter), but that isn't quite the same as being bisexual (in terms of how it's commonly perceived at any rate). Beyond that, I'd be interested to see how they actually measured the arousal and how they've accounted for any non-sexual reaction to the stimuli - all that article talks about is pupil dilation, which doesn't necessarily denote sexual arousal.
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You know what, I think women are more conservative, and bothered what people think. So they are likely to repress any 'bi' instincts. Another thing I've noticed through interaction in a context where you can discuss sexual stuff is that women who describe themselves as bisexual, in practice, have very little interest whatsoever in talking to men, in a sexual or non-sexual context- for instance a platform specifically about flirting and meeting people, they will say they are bi, but the way they only end up wanting to talk to women suggests they have very little, or zero sexual interest in men. It becomes very obvious.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
You know what, I think women are more conservative, and bothered what people think. So they are likely to repress any 'bi' instincts. Another thing I've noticed through interaction in a context where you can discuss sexual stuff is that women who describe themselves as bisexual, in practice, have very little interest whatsoever in talking to men, in a sexual or non-sexual context- for instance a platform specifically about flirting and meeting people, they will say they are bi, but the way they only end up wanting to talk to women suggests they have very little, or zero sexual interest in men. It becomes very obvious.
You know what, I think women are more conservative, and bothered what people think. So they are likely to repress any 'bi' instincts. Another thing I've noticed through interaction in a context where you can discuss sexual stuff is that women who describe themselves as bisexual, in practice, have very little interest whatsoever in talking to men, in a sexual or non-sexual context- for instance a platform specifically about flirting and meeting people, they will say they are bi, but the way they only end up wanting to talk to women suggests they have very little, or zero sexual interest in men. It becomes very obvious.
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(Original post by Stiff Little Fingers)
Difficult to analyse when the paper doesn't appear to have been published in full yet - only an abstract: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26501187
However, no. Everyone exists on a scale and precious few will be 100% straight (or 100% lesbian for that matter), but that isn't quite the same as being bisexual (in terms of how it's commonly perceived at any rate). Beyond that, I'd be interested to see how they actually measured the arousal and how they've accounted for any non-sexual reaction to the stimuli - all that article talks about is pupil dilation, which doesn't necessarily denote sexual arousal.
Difficult to analyse when the paper doesn't appear to have been published in full yet - only an abstract: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26501187
However, no. Everyone exists on a scale and precious few will be 100% straight (or 100% lesbian for that matter), but that isn't quite the same as being bisexual (in terms of how it's commonly perceived at any rate). Beyond that, I'd be interested to see how they actually measured the arousal and how they've accounted for any non-sexual reaction to the stimuli - all that article talks about is pupil dilation, which doesn't necessarily denote sexual arousal.
Does this make sense?
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(Original post by there's too much love)
My post was sarcastic, I'm trying to say this is surely very true of men, especially when they're at sea
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My post was sarcastic, I'm trying to say this is surely very true of men, especially when they're at sea
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