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    I was watching this on iPlayer (http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode...to-dating-apps). have never been successful with Tinder, Happn or Seeking arrangement, even though i spend hours on them

    I have liked 1000s of girls on happn but have never gotten a like back

    Even Seeking arrangement, I try to give girls over £6000 a month but never had any success.
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    (Original post by GodAtum)
    I was watching this on iPlayer (http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode...to-dating-apps). have never been successful with Tinder, Happn or Seeking arrangement, even though i spend hours on them

    I have liked 1000s of girls on happn but have never gotten a like back

    Even Seeking arrangement, I try to give girls over £6000 a month but never had any success.
    Just chill. Desperation is a major repel factor.

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    Maybe try going out more to places which interest you/involve your hobby so you meet compatible people. Online works for some but physically meeting people to get that connection sometimes works better
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    have you tried meetchristians.com?
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    Please don't tell me you've actually given girls that £6k..? I don't know how that seeking arrangement thing works.
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    (Original post by ihatePE)
    have you tried meetchristians.com?
    did you use that ?
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    (Original post by demx9)
    did you use that ?
    no i've only tried meetblacks.com
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    Poor ‘Clover’ (gold digger) came over as an emotionally stunted, possibly abused, haunted little lamb :sad: The ending to the show rather tickled me though! :rofl:

    (Original post by GodAtum)
    I have never been successful with Tinder, Happn or Seeking arrangement, even though i spend hours on them
    Online dating is rarely all that fruitful for young lads. See my related blog article for reference

    I try to give girls over £6000 a month but never had any success
    Sounds like that money would probably be better spent on improving aspects of your dating credentials and perhaps hiring a social/dating coach (like myself)

    (Original post by ihatePE)
    have you tried meetchristians.com?
    Haha, is that actually a thing?
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    Interesting blog, i do have a few opinions on your methods

    1) Through friends/existing social networks
    2) Through workplace/place of education
    3) Through social/activity groups/clubs
    4) At concerts/exhibitions and other cultural events
    5) Online non-dating websites e.g. social networking, meetup sites, forums etc
    6) Out and about (daygame and night game)
    7) Online dating
    8) Speed dating
    1/ I dont really have a huge social circle
    2/ i think it could get quite awkward dating a co-worker
    3 & 4/ I have tried clubs/social activites but don't find them fruitful. According to one journalist, this was almost useless (http://www.newsshopper.co.uk/news/10998441.print/)
    6/ I think it is quite misogynistic going up to random, beautiful women. i'd rather get to know them first.
    8/ I have tried speed dating but it does not suit my personality.

    I have watched many of Hayley Quinn's videos but most of what she says is pretty obvious, for me it's just trying to implement her advice.
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    (Original post by GodAtum)
    I was watching this on iPlayer (http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode...to-dating-apps). have never been successful with Tinder, Happn or Seeking arrangement, even though i spend hours on them

    I have liked 1000s of girls on happn but have never gotten a like back

    Even Seeking arrangement, I try to give girls over £6000 a month but never had any success.
    It's a profile problem. There must be at least one red flag in your bio, or maybe you have a ****ty picture. Ask a smart and girl savvy friend where you're going wrong.

    If you're feeling brave, you could post your bio or other profile details here. TSR could help you out
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    Hey I'm ***, currently living and working in London. My main job is an IT consultant for a large multinational.

    TV ... Big Bang Theory, Brooklyn Nine Nine, Marvel, 8 out of 10 cats
    Films ... any action, comedy or sci-fi
    Traveling - Anywhere in Asia (I love it) especially Malaysia
    Books - history, sci-fi, science
    Music - any pop, rnb, rock

    I'm a laid back type of guy always up for trying new things and looking for a similar like-minded girl to share the adventures that London has to offer!

    Thanks for reading my profile and I look forward to hearing from you
    I find that I'm not the type of guy most girls are looking for. They want a guy who is exciting, fun, strong and good looking. I have a sense of homour, but am introverted and geeky. Also, the problem is my idea of fun and socialising is different from most girls. I don't like going clubbing, or partying, or drinking. I like staying at home watching TV and playing video games.
 
 
 
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